Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
“She *HAS* To Find A Way In Here To Be Induced…”
“She *HAS* to find a way in here to be induced and she can bring the other kids if she has to and they can stay with her during the induction.” – OB calling the mother’s husband at work to stress the importance of an induction at 42 weeks.
Right, who’s going to watch my kids as they run around and unplug and climb things?
[Reply]
Rachel Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 11:33 am (Quote)
Whoops they unplugged the Pitocin again…..
[Reply]
Jane Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 11:35 am (Quote)
The woman next door to me in the hospital after I had my first baby brought five kids with her, and NO ONE was watching them. They were running the halls, screaming, banging things, slamming doors — what a nightmare! I have no idea what the circumstances were that led to those kids being there, but the other adults with her weren’t doing anything to keep them quiet. Eventually the nurses asked the family members to take the kids out of the maternity unit.
Ah, but what do you do if mom is being induced, is strapped to monitors, and on one can take them home? I guess you let the kids demolish the hospital.
[Reply]
Right. Because we all know that if the mother won’t listen, you can always bully her husband into it and she’ll listen to him, right?
[Reply]
There is evidence-based science that shows that the stillbirth rate increases after 42 weeks. It actually increases after 41 weeks, too. It seems mom has has at least 2 other deliveries, unless the kids are from a second family. Labor would likely not last more than 6 hours after AROM. That doesn’t seem a high “price” to pay for a healthy livebirth at 42 weeks.
[Reply]
Jane Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 11:32 am (Quote)
THe mom has the right to informed refusal, regardless.
And bullying tactics by the doctor aren’t justified even with the slight increase in stillbirth after 42 weeks. The doctor needed to present facts, not make an end run around the mother’s right of informed refusal.
[Reply]
Toni Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 11:55 am (Quote)
Actualy the stillbirth rate begins to increase at 38 weeks (when it is at its lowest, statisticaly). If that was the ONLY consideration, we would be inducing all women at, or around, 38 weeks (and geting lots of preterm babies as a result). The ACOG does NOT state that 42 weeks is some sort of “cut off”; in fact a woman at 42 weeks has some options: inducing is an option (it is most likely to work in a multip with a favorable cervix), proceding straight to c-section is an option, and watchful waiting is an option (with NSTs and/or biophysical profiles conducted twice weekly to monitor baby’s condition). All are considered “acceptable” choices according to the ACOG. For a woman with an unfavorable cervix, who would like to avoid unneeded surgery (like, say, she has two kids at home and doesn’t want to deal with taking care of two kids and a newborn while recovering from a primary section (usually the ahrdest to recover from), watchful waiting may be the best choice. And let’s not forget that two times a very small number is still a very small number (think 1/1000 vs 2/1000). And the studies that showed “double the risk of still birth after 42 weeks” included data from the 1960′s. Monitoring has improved greatly since then.
So, you’re right, Larry, there is an increased risk of still birth after 42 weeks. But the absolute risk is still very small and since inductions put the mother and baby at increased risk, it should be entirely up to the patient to decide which course of action she is most comfortable with. Assuming there are no other complications at play, waiting is perfectly valid.
[Reply]
RM Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 12:22 pm (Quote)
“Labor would likely not last more than 6 hours after AROM.” ? Seriously? You must be in the crystal ball business- there is no way you can predict this. “That doesn’t seem a high “price” to pay for a healthy livebirth at 42 weeks.” Because 1 day after 42 weeks, the placenta expires and baby dies. Come off it, plenty of healthy babies are born after 42 weeks. How do you know docs even got mom’s dates right? I’m betting if we checked statistics, more babies die from prematurity (much if which is iatrogenic) or complications of than are stillborn. Take your dead baby card, Larry, and keep it to yourself. Unless the doc has some solid proof that the baby is in danger by remaining in the womb, there is no reason to induce.
[Reply]
The Deranged Housewife Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 12:57 pm (Quote)
Why can’t we ever just say, “And there’s an equally good chance you’ll go into labor on your own and everything will be just fine!” Why does it always have to be painted as the worst case scenario? We spend way more time thinking about all the stuff that could go wrong – and planning for a disaster that might never happen – than we spending coaching women on how to have a normal pregnancy and treat things IF they come up.
[Reply]
Melanie Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 1:12 pm (Quote)
We know the EXACT conception date of our daughter, and she was born 3 weeks late–unfortunately by induction, but by that point it was MY CHOICE to do so. My OBGYN was very supportive of my continuing the pregnancy, as he does NOT like inductions since he does not like c-sections. After my due date passed he started fetal monitoring twice a week for the first week late….every other day as of the 2nd week late, and daily after that point. My baby was not showing any signs of distress, so he left it up to me, but discouraged induction. As of nearly 3 weeks late we were noticing SLIGHT signs that the placenta may be getting old, so I went ahead and scheduled the induction. (This was AFTER trying every natural way possible to bring on labor.) I was VERY PLEASED with how my doc handled things. He did NOT take to fear mongering or pushing me. It helped keep me calm and in controle.
[Reply]
Britney Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 1:42 pm (Quote)
My midwife allowed me to reach 42 weeks before pushing induction and the main reason that induction was pushed was because my daughter was starting to show signs of fetal distress (heart beat kept jumping to the 220′s-230′s and not going down for hours on end).
[Reply]
Melinda Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 10:13 pm (Quote)
This is the type of induction story I like to hear…where mom is informed, consulted and the ultimate decider! I wish all doctors could be like yours! Rather than the typical “You’re 39w and 5 days…we better start talking induction if that baby isn’t here in 2 days!”
[Reply]
Katy Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 2:03 pm (Quote)
Larry, once again you seem to miss the point of posting these quotes from medical professionals to patients: they are inappropriate. In all kinds of ways.
We can assume that the woman, the patient, here was not incapacitated since she could bring her kids – so the husband was not the one to make the choice to induce or not. Talking to him and not the patient is another example that when it comes to maternity care the mother is often not considered a real person. If we want more healthy babies and more healthy mothers that has to change.
Again, if the OB had talked to the actual patient and present some of the facts (opinions) that you did then this wouldn’t be a MOSW quote – it would be an example of treating the patient and being a good medical professional (we might even see it on Thursday).
[Reply]
Michelle Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 2:30 pm (Quote)
EXACTLY! The births of my first and fifth babies followed very similar patterns. Hospital -> Pitocin -> Epidural -> C-section. So why was the first an absolute nightmare while the fifth was a wonderful experience? Because the with the first baby, I was ordered around, lied to, not listened to, and treated like a piece of meat. The doctor with my fifth baby was kind and supportive, offered facts without scare tactics, respected my decisions, and treated me like a human being.
Oh, and Larry, what on earth are you talking about with that 6 hours BS? First off, do you have some kind of evidence to support that, because it’s definitely not my experience. Secondly, I don’t understand how what you mean by “it’s not a high price to pay.” What isn’t? Six hours of labor? I’ll gladly labor 24 hours, or 36, if it’s what is necessary for a healthy baby. But I won’t impose the health risks of artificial induction on my child unless I’m sure they’re outweighed by the benefits.
[Reply]
Andrea Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 4:18 pm (Quote)
Yes, but the stillbirth rate also increases for a whole host of other reasons that no one seems to give a crap about, so…
And the increase is so small that for many mothers (for whom their unborn child is their first priority, even ahead of their own lives), the risk you note is not worth the risks of induction.
You would make a different choice than this woman. That’s your right. And her right is to make the choice that is best for HER.
[Reply]
Megan Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 6:46 pm (Quote)
wow Larry. Wow. Can you predict my future too? I wanna be next!!
Are you the physician in question? Because really…Likely hood of “loss of life either embryo, fetus, infant, or mother” is a risk at any point during pregnancy. So lets just cut out that risk and not have babies anymore. Its much safer to just.. grow them in petridishes. right? Because if mom is at 42 weeks. And the Non stress test was normal, lord knows that SOMETHING else must be wrong!
and Larry, mr. smarty pants.. what would YOU do with the children then?? would you be so kind to watch them? Or should the mom just suck that up to and spend her “6 hours” of labor that you predicted also baby sitting children? WHAT if the unlikely instance of an emergency happening? Like what happened with MY birth where i ended up in a REAL emergency csection? That shook up not only me but also my husband, doula, and midwife and even OB who were all present. Im sure the kids would be FINE though right?
Thanks Larry. Back to your crystal ball now. you have work to do!
[Reply]
Right, and the OB has no problem hanging out in the room to watch the older kids.
Because we all know the placenta explodes at 42 weeks and that kids are perfectly behaved when mom is in bed and that really she’s just being careless and selfish for not hopping in the car to get to the hospital right this minute.
This is why women need to be controlled by their husbands and the patriarchial medical system. We’re just not reasonable!
[Reply]
Every single hospital in the city and surrounding area (nine I can think of off the top of my head) have at least one rule in common: each child that comes to the hospital with a laboring mother MUST have a responsible adult BESIDES THE LABORING MOTHER supervising them at all times. I’m sure the nurses at the hospital would flip out hearing him suggest she bring her kids with her!!
[Reply]
It would be interesting if the OT would let us know how long her labor was. In my 30 years of OB experience, I have found that mutiparas typically profess at about 1 cm per hour once they get to 4cm, have regular contractions and the BOW has broken or been ruptured. That works out to about 6 hours/
[Reply]
Jane Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 4:40 pm (Quote)
But again, you’re assuming she was already at 4cm and would *immediately* begin having regular contractions the minute the induction began.
I was a multipara when induced (necessary) and I had 12 hours of completely nonproductive contractions. I was still 1/2 cm dilated at that point.
So yes, once the woman begins active labor, she might dilate 1cm per hour from 4 to 10cm if conditions are right, but how long does it take to get to 4cm, and how long will she push afterward?
Also, are you taking into account that pitocin contractions are typically harder to cope with than oxytocin contractions? And therefore the mom might resort to pain medication? And that with an epidural, her pushing will likely be less effective?
Are you taking into account that because the mom’s not ready to give birth, the baby might not be in a good position to descend, nor in a good position to push?
I hope that if you’re an OB, you’re not selling induction to your multiparas by telling them it’ll be a six-hour trip.
[Reply]
Michelle Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 6:02 pm (Quote)
How often are women already 4cm dilated before they start labor? Serious question, because I only know my own experience, which is that I am never more than 1cm before labor starts. So if you wanted to induce me, and told me it’d probably only be six hours, but you were thinking “once you get to 4cm,” — well, then add another eight hours on before that.
[Reply]
Megan Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 6:51 pm (Quote)
again Larry. with your experience. and that goddamn crystal ball of yours.
Just back away from the maternity forums. We are not here to bash doctors, nurses, or even csection loving mothers. we are here to provide support. Obviously this comment was not taken lightly by the husband since it got back to the wife who then submitted it to us here as an “MOSW” post.
Thanks. Go be paranoid about loseing your job to us “natural birthing junkies” somewhere else because here is not the place.
[Reply]
Nicci P Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 4:02 pm (Quote)
^^THIS^^
This is a website for women who have been through crap at the hands of a HCP, some of it horrific. And the support I have recieved here has helped me a lot with healing. Had you left one of your often condecending comments on one of my posts I wouldn’t have been happy. Many of the quotes on here in indefensible, please don’t try to defend them.
[Reply]
Rachel Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 8:08 pm (Quote)
I was in labour from 8 am friday (when my water broke) till I consented to some Pitt saturday night saturday at 8 pm I was at 5 (totally shocking the midwife who was not sure I was really in labour)…. I was 4 hours on pitt ended up with a baby at 2 am…
[Reply]
Mharry Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 8:43 pm (Quote)
Hey Larry, mind telling us where you work? Because if you’re so sure of yourself you should be confident in disclosing that information.
Meanwhile, I’d like to know so I can be sure to run the opposite direction if I ever come near you. Now I’m going to have to ask the first name of every medical professional I know. You just made a lot of innocent Larrys lose business. Shame on you.
“In my experience that I’m waving around to quiet all your women, birth goes exactly like this or I’ll make it do so.” You people wonder and gawk when I say I don’t want to have kids? I wouldn’t let you give aid to my cat.
[Reply]
Elizabeth Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 6:25 am (Quote)
I was 4-5 cms dilated with my first before going into active labor. I was in labor for 22 hours. With my second I had no VEs but have no reason to believe that I wasn’t already dilated as well before active labor and I had a 14 hour labor. I do not know many women who have had 6 hour labors. I don’t know what kind of experience you are talking about, but I wouldn’t want to be a part of it.
[Reply]
Details Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 10:11 am (Quote)
I believe somebody here had proof that breaking the bag of waters only sped things up by 20 minutes. Since it increases the risk of infection and risk of prolapsed cord I think I’ll pass. 20 extra mintues of labor is “a small price to pay” especially for the doctor. I would be more interested to know what her Bishop score was at that point, but I suspect that even the doctor didn’t know that. I suspect that the woman didn’t show up to her office appointment or induction BECAUSE she didn’t have a sitter. I also suspect the doctor called the husband at work BECAUSE the woman didn’t show up. I am a lot more interested in her BPP and her Bishop score than the length of her labor. Then again I am a woman of science and pay attention to those annoying little details that trip up people who put it on autopilot and doen’t ask the right questions. Larry, You are a fool! I feel very sorry for your patients. But you let me know if your c-sction rate is less than 10%. mkay?
[Reply]
Nicci P Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 4:10 pm (Quote)
If he’s the same OB who has been leaving similar comments on the MOBSW Facebook group (named Lawrence, which could obviously be shortened to Larry) he posted the other week what his c-section rate is. It was around 30-35% , I can’t remember which.
[Reply]
Dee Reply:
February 7th, 2012 at 9:47 am (Quote)
I don’t know if it’s the same fellow, but there’s a Dr. Lawrence M. Slocki who practices in Picayune, MS, and also is licensed in Vermont (and TX, according to one site). Specialties listed are ob/gyn and occupational medicine. He got his undergrad degree from Princeton in 1975, which (ballpark) would make him about 58-60, assuming general statistics apply about age of obtaining a bachelor’s degree (age 22-24). Medical training was at Baylor, and he’s been in practice 33 years.
What? (smile, blink blink) It’s public information, thanks to the internet. Yeah, my ob/gyn who caught DS didn’t believe mere Ph.D.s like me were well educated and smart, either. ;0 (BAZINGA!)
[Reply]
Nicci P Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 4:24 pm (Quote)
AND was trying to justify it by saying that the WHO no longer recommended that the c-section rate should stay below 10-15%
But I think that probably stems from the thought processes that Jane often talks about in which the doctor thinks:
Good people don’t cut people open for no reason; I am a good person; my c-section rate is high; the guidelines must be in the wrong and not me.
[Reply]
Sheva Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 7:43 pm (Quote)
Larry, I have five children. My first labor was induced with cervadil for 12 hours at which point I was 2 cm, and then pitocin for 6 hours. I went from 4 cm to complete in 15 minutes.
2nd was also induced, but without cervidil. I went from 4 to complete in about 30 minutes.
My 3rd was 15 hours, went from 4 to complete in about 9 hours.
My 4th was 9 hours. I went from 4 to complete in about 6 hours.
My last labor was 40 hours, with 9 hours from 4 to complete.
Notice the pattern? It’s pitocin that makes them go so quick, not the amount of babies.
I would venture that you induce or augment most of your patients.
What is your induction/augmentation rate? I’d love to know.
[Reply]
Stephanie Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 9:48 pm (Quote)
Larry, as the person who submitted this, I go from about 4-complete in anywhere from an hour to a few hours. This was my fourth child and I know exactly how my transition starts. There was no reason to rush this and no reason to rush to the hospital even if I had been laboring for a while. Baby would have been fine if it had been born at home or on the way as I had prepared myself for a UC just in case. There is NO typical for any class of woman when it comes to progression of labor. NONE. It is exactly that mentality that leads to too many unnecessary interventions and c-sections and as a woman, I take offense to the know-it-all mentality. Each of my labors has gotten longer by a couple of hours – now which mold does that fit into? NONE because by your OB rules, they should be getting shorter. HA, no such chance.
[Reply]
I didn’t get the memo about having a baby after 6 hours. My 5th was born nearly 21 hours after my water broke. I was checked at about 1 that afternoon and was 4 cm, but didn’t get to birth him until 5:30 the following morning. We had even tried augmenting labor with walking and nipple stimulation.
[Reply]
Okay, I admit it, when I went in at 40 weeks exactly (by their count) and wasn’t even a teensy bit dilated, I cried. I HATE being pregnant. I would have done ANYTHING to not be pregnant anymore. Anything that is, except let them induce me. I cried even harder when my doctor tried to schedule me for induction the following week. So she said we could wait ant see, but that she would not be comfortable with me going past 42 weeks.
Turns out, I went into labor all on my own. 36 hours of labor later, and I had a “huge” baby (9lbs 8oz) at 40w3d.
[Reply]
So, how many women come in for induction already 4cm, with water broken, and having regular contractions?
By the way Larry, in all your years of being an OB, did you ever once read off the side effects/risks of pitocin to the patient? It would be a lot more than just “6 hours of labor and pop you’re done.”
[Reply]
O my Lord in Heaven there is almost nothing worse that I can imagine for a hospital scenario than undergoing an induction with my kids around. And that is WITH my husband there. The thought of it happening without another adult (save for some already-overworked L&D nurses, you KNOW the OB isn’t going to sit around and watch them) is almost more than I can bear to imagine.
If I picture it, I see sirens and the theme song from ER. Yep, definitely would be ONLY Over My Imminently Endangered Body.
[Reply]
…Oh, and also, what I think is very telling is that ol’ Larry up there did NOT come in saying, “Oh goodness a doctor would only call the husband if something extremely grave was happening! Let’s find out from OP about what the serious circumstances were!”
Nope. Not even an eyelash batted at the unusual step of calling a husband– which is inappropriate in almost any conceivable situation– but instead a lot of assumptions and bloviating about the scientific evidence of post-dates…which were not mentioned at all.
[Reply]
Katy Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 11:51 pm (Quote)
Yes! Calling the husband is the thing that bothers me the most about this quote. For all sorts of reasons mostly having to do with respect and professionalism.
[Reply]
Nica Reply:
February 6th, 2012 at 7:03 am (Quote)
Yeah, I just couldn’t get past the calling the husband part. This completely ludicrous, as if the mother wasn’t an adult who is capable of making her own decisions.
All I could think is that if my OB tried that with my DH (she NEVER would), he would laugh hysterically, tell her to call me for an answer and then promptly hang up the phone. He knows better than to make decisions on my behalf, especially when it comes to childbirth. LOL!
[Reply]
Obs really shouldn’t post in here, lol. We aren’t your typical patients Larry, we are informed, confident and not easily scared.
[Reply]
Dee Reply:
February 7th, 2012 at 9:26 am (Quote)
What gets me about OBs posting here is that they are very selective about what they comment on. Remember that HORRIBLE post some months back where the OB said, “Pit her to distress, I’m tired of her” clearly being unethical and unsafe. The other guys (Fogerty? Can’t recall) was silent on that one, just like he was on the one where the OB said something to the effect of “I’m cutting you (episiotomy) to punish you” to a young mother. Yet they jump in freely on other issues, often where ‘informed consent’ is involved (i.e. an educated mom trying to make a good decision, and a doctor using scare tactics) to support the OB. I don’t like that lack of balance. It’s like they ignore the horrible stuff, but pull out their ‘expertise’ when it’s mom’s instincts/education coming into play. Docs, you can’t have it both ways.
[Reply]
Nicci P Reply:
February 7th, 2012 at 10:56 am (Quote)
I was actually thinking of that myself today, I think he said something like “I’m going to cut you, that’ll teach you to keep your legs closed” or something similar. And yep, Dr Fogelson (I think) ignored it while arguing and trying to prove points on other stuff. But it says a lot that their reaction to informed consent is to try to stamp it out.
[Reply]
This one is mine…..I had called the night before to let them know I wouldn’t be in as my husband had been scheduled to work and after I didn’t answer the phone because we had company that morning, he called my husband at work. This was after weeks of arguing with them my due date was wrong (I have a 35 day cycle and they would only figure on a 28 day because the u/s said it was right, ugh) and they were worried she was small (measured within the realm of normal for my kids which to that point had barely broken 7 pounds) and weekly u/s and NSTs I knew there was no problem AND the induction was scheduled without my consent. My Bishop score was not good either so there was no way. I ignored calls from the office for the rest of the day and labor started the next. I had a couple of days of contractions and lost my plug but refused to go in until three days later and my favorite Midwife was there. Had a healthy baby girl who weighed just over 8 pounds (though the week prior they said she was only 6 lbs. 5 oz. and I called bologna) and fully knew the “risks” and went with my gut. The called each day to see how things were going and to try and get me to go in to be induced but I declined. All I saw was an OB trying like crazy to get paid – after all, I’d had 3 previous vaginal births that never needed to be induced…..and WHY on earth did all the rules about how many people could be in the room and rules about kids suddenly get thrown out the window? And yes, I had already tried to find a HB MW because hubby wasn’t comfortable with a UC but had no luck….. I am starting my pregnancy with them while I work something out with a HB Midwife I was recently referred to for this pregnancy! I was LIVID at my treatment to say the least, at least the Midwife was wonderful and acknowledged that I didn’t want/need the induction though she still made her own comments. My labors have always been long (12 hrs, 13 hrs, 15 hrs) and my water didn’t break with this one……..for Larry of course…..
[Reply]
Jane Reply:
February 7th, 2012 at 11:20 am (Quote)
I’m aghast. They scheduled an induction without consent and then called your husband at work to try to coerce him into getting you there?
You were telling them they were measuring the baby as older than she was, but they refused to listen — but they were concerned the baby was small…when if they’d just adjusted her age, she’d have been on-target? (And 6.5 pounds isn’t really all that small…)
Good luck working things out with the HB midwife! It sounds as if you and your body know what you’re doing.
[Reply]
« “If I Can Just Show You This Product.” Next Post
“…I Really Doubt This Is Going To Work.” »


Hahahahaha…. Okay, let’s count the things wrong with this!
1) Doctor calling the husband at work, presumably to divide-and-conquer
2) Doctor seems to think the only reason the mom is not consenting to induction is that it’s inconvenient
3) Doctor has no clue that the father could provide childcare
4) Doctor seems to think what every laboring woman wants is to have her children with her while she’s strapped up to monitors and enduring painful pitocin contractions.
5) Doctor not giving a medical indication for the induction, although to be fair that might have taken place prior to this snippet.
Anything else?
[Reply]
Jane Reply:
February 5th, 2012 at 11:31 am Jane(Quote)
6) I bet the doctor got the husband’s work number from the woman’s emergency contact list. And an elective induction is not an emergency.
[Reply]