Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
Thoughtful Thursday! “I Want To Home Birth When I’m Ready To Have Kids.”
“So you were the homebirth transfer? I’m so sorry. I want to homebirth when I’m ready to have kids.” – OB Resident to mother.
This is mine, I had a non-emergent transfer and was getting ready to go home just waiting for paperwork to be done. One of the residents came in and said this to me as she was leaving her shift. It made me feel so good.
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Samantha Reply:
January 12th, 2012 at 7:01 am (Quote)
Forgot to add, even though I didn’t homebirth with this baby I still ended up with a drug free VBAC that was very healing. Our next baby was born at home.
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Alyson Miers Reply:
January 12th, 2012 at 7:48 am (Quote)
Congratulations on your nice birthing experiences! Wouldn’t it be interesting to hear more from that OB resident?
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Oh my goodness, I so wish this OB resident took care of me! I arrived at the ER while hemorrhaging during a miscarriage (I lost 40% of my blood and my body was in shock) and the resident and one of the nurses (at separate times) literally lectured me about how I had been planning a homebirth with a previous c/s (I had also already had a natural hospital VBAC). The resident said “Homebirth is such a bad idea! I personally know a patient who was close to death because she tried to VBAC at home! It is irresponsible!” I was like- seriously? you’re going to lecture me about homebirth now when I’m bleeding to death and just lost my baby? thanks… thanks a lot, jerk!
Anyway… I’m SO SO SO glad you had a positive experience, OP! And that you got your healing VBAC! (WOO!!!)
Hopefully both of us will have peaceful homebirths next time!
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Congrats and what a great Doc!
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Nice! I hope this resident keeps her positive atttitude forever.
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