Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
“I Can’t Turn It Off Without A Doctor’s Order.”
“I can’t turn it off without a doctor’s order.” – L&D Nurse to mother when the mother asked for the pitocin to be turned off.
At which point I rip the IV out myself.
You don’t need the doctors order, you need MY order, because I’M in charge of MY body. If I told the doctor this he would have two choices, do as I tell him, or commit a criminal act. Now which sounds right to you, nursie?
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Either you call the doc, or I’ll call the police.
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 1:48 pm (Quote)
Sadly, nowadays they can turn that argument around and use it on the laboring patient.
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It should be up to the mom right? You are there at the hospital for help as you ask as long as there is no harm to the baby or you. Sorry to hear that happened OP.
I know the labor moms normally have more rights, or at least should. But if you are the elderly where they are treating you, if you rip off your IV’s they will restrain you and put all the IV’s in.
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I understand everyone’s angst at this comment. However, we do not know the whole story. If this is an “forced induction” because mom has gone postdate, then the nurse is probably rightly concerned. Hospital policies and all. {which I am not saying is right!}
In a perfect world, we wouldn’t have to worry about this. But reality is, once you’ve submitted to a procedure, it’s much harder to stop it after it has begun. Education prior to procedure and informed consent or refusal are very important.
Do I believe that this woman’s request should have been heeded, yes, absolutely. But I also know that this is not exactly how most hospitals operate.
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Jane Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 9:29 am (Quote)
To be fair, we also don’t know whether the nurse obtained consent before starting the pitocin. If the nurse started pitocin without consent and then said “I need a doctor’s order to turn it off,” then the whole situation is reprehensible.
If OTOH the pitocin was ordered because the mom had Pre-E (for example) and the mom was panicked because the contractions were coming too fast and too forcefully and she desperately needed pain relief, then the nurse’s statement makes more sense…but only if it’s then followed up by suggestions to help the mom cope, even if it’s an epidural or medication.
But saying you need paperwork and a proper legal trail to someone who’s in pain because of something you could stop — that’s not compassionate. The mom can’t go get a doctor to order it turned off. At that moment, her legs and voice are the nurse’s, so if the nurse says “I need a doctor to do that,” then the ONLY acceptable next step is for the nurse to page a doctor stat.
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Cat Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 10:16 am (Quote)
“But reality is, once you’ve submitted to a procedure, it’s much harder to stop it after it has begun.”
But that’s only true for certain procedures. It’s one thing if the mom is in the middle of a c-section and changes her mind. You can’t exactly put the baby back in and tell mom to go ahead and push. It’s an entirely different thing if the procedure is as simple as medication being administered through an IV. Pitocin can be turned up, turned down or turned off all very easily. At the very least, the nurse should have talked to the mom about what she was experiencing and explained why the pitocin levels were set the way they were and worked with the mom to find a good solution, whether it be administering pain medication or turning the pit down/off.
If it were an antibiotic that the mom was suddenly having a severe allergic reaction to, you can bet that the nurse would be stopping the IV flow without looking for a doctor to give her orders first.
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Jane Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 11:16 am (Quote)
I know in the case of my grandmother, she requested not to have a ventilator used on her, and after the surgery, the doctors put her on a ventilator anyhow. My mother came in and demanded they remove the ventilator, and she was told she’d need a court order.
(Before anyone asks, my grandmother had an advance directive AND had given my mother durable power of attorney; she had put this in writing and so had my mother. There were nor reprocussions for the doctors doing what they did.)
My mother was in process of getting the legal paperwork together when my grandmother circumvented the system by dying.
But yes, if you cannot *prevent* the hospital from starting a treatment you don’t want, it’s very very difficult to stop it once they’ve started.
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Tee Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 1:11 pm (Quote)
Jane, that happened to my aunt. She had lung cancer (never smoked a day in her life) and had covered every base legally. They still put her on the vent without permission and refused to pull it. She died in the exact manner she didn’t want to and that is why I have made it clear to my family that they are not to take me to the hospital. Let me die at home.
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 1:50 pm (Quote)
And yet, when the patient *wants* to try different things that might help, they refuse to treat…. dear God… makes me wonder if they ever bother reading anything. No wonder people sue so much.
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 1:52 pm (Quote)
Jane and Tee, I just googled this to see what would come up, and apparently it’s quite a problem.
The headline: “Living Wills and Advance Directives Often Ignored by Doctors.” Sheesh. :/
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Tee Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 2:09 pm (Quote)
As much as I hate to admit it, that doesn’t surprise me at all. I’m terminal and told my family that they are NOT to take me to the hospital no matter what. I won’t be put in a situation where that could happen to me. A DNR and whatnot can only be ignored if you give them the chance to go against your will. I know how hard it was to watch it with my Aunt. Just no. No.
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Jane Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 2:30 pm (Quote)
Wow, Tee. I’m sorry.
I do know a couple who made an agreement that if one of them should ever keel over, the other one is to take the car keys and go grocery shopping for at least two hours. There’s only so many times you can watch a hospital violate every human norm and every standard of compassion before you just lose faith in our country’s end-of-life care.
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Tee Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 2:47 pm (Quote)
Well, thank you but it’s not really anything to be sorry about. I’m grateful that I know enough to know what could easily happen in a hospital. No need to go that route. Hospice is a wonderful thing to use whenever possible!
That couple sounds really amazing to me! I know a lot of people would hear that story and cringe but I think it shows a tremendous amount of respect for one another.
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himom Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 6:14 pm (Quote)
Tee – I am sorry to hear about your situation but so very glad that you already have hospice lined up as a resource to use when you need to. Hospice is one of the only ways to help make sure that you and your family are supported in the way that you want to have a peaceful passing at home. They help your family not panic at the end when they might be scared and vulnerable. Sort of like a doula during the birth process…
My heart is with you and your family.
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Tee Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 7:04 pm (Quote)
Your sweet words really touched me, thank you! Yes, I’m so grateful to have a wonderful hospice service in place for when that time comes. And I LOVE the comparison to doulas. That is a great way to put it!
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teapot Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 9:28 pm (Quote)
As a former doula/cbe, I had the honor to attend one of my friends as she died a number of years ago. In many ways, it was similar to being at a birth.
Tee, I am glad that you have hospice services in place. I know that in some states, if a person dies at home, without hospice services, an investigation, complete with autopsy must be done. That was the main reason that my sister had hospice services when her oldest daughter was dying several years ago. She (and everyone else that I know who had dealt with hospice, no matter where they are) has had nothing but good things to say about them.
I wish you well on your journey, Tee. May it be peaceful for you and your family.
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Knitted in the Womb Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 8:12 pm (Quote)
EXACTLY!
My understanding of how nursing practice works is that a nurse can not give a medication without a doctor’s orders…but unless withdrawing the medication could possibly result in some sort of immediate harm, I think it would be within a nurse’s scope of practice to turn off a medication that the patient has requested be turned off.
But that said…as a doula, I had a nurse say this exact same thing to me in a very snide and condescending way when I had a client who wanted her Pitocin turned off until the anesthesiologist arrived to do her epidural (which was expected to take about an hour since he was in the OR for a cesarean). I didn’t want to argue with the nurse, but I did want to advocate for my client, so I simply said “well then please call her doctor.” A few minutes later the nurse quietly came into the room and turned the Pitocin off. Yay!
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The doctor told me that they couldn’t turn the pit off once they started it.
If I had know that they could, I would have told them to. I think all I needed was a little push to get past 6 and everything would have been fine, but she made it seem like if they started pit, there was no stopping it. Sorry this happened to you, OP.
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I’m so excited to share my best birth story! (I know what you’re thinking; this is her best birth story? Read to the end and you’ll see why.)
I was pregnant with twins, had preeclampsia for the third time, and had been on hospital bedrest for 3 weeks, some form of bedrest for 14 weeks. Once I passed 35 weeks everyone (OB, MFM, Ped, and I) was in agreement that I could have the babies any time if I went into labor and that we wouldn’t push the pregnancy past 36 weeks. I spent that entire week doing nipple stimulation and pressure point massage trying to start labor but with no luck. The night before my scheduled induction, I pretty much spent the entire night working on starting labor, and by 4:00 when they came in to start the IV I was in early labor. I talked it over with the nurse and she agreed to leave the Pit on the lowest setting (3) since it wouldn’t take much to put me into active labor.
My wonderful OB came in at 7:00 to check me over, and he agreed that it was fine to leave the Pit at 3 since I was having a good active pattern. The nurse shift was changing, and I don’t know if the new nurse wasn’t informed of the plan or if she chose to ignore it, but she started turning up the Pit without my realizing it. This was not what I had consented to, nor what my doctor had ordered.
My contractions got stronger pretty quickly. My previous labors had also been fast once things got going, so I didn’t really think anything of it. I was just focused on my labor. At 9:25, I had an overwhelming contraction that caused me to say outloud, “I can’t do this.” My DH said, “Yes you can,” just like I’d trained him
, and my brain said, “Twenty more minutes. You can do this for twenty more minutes.” (I had read that when you reach the point of thinking you can’t, you’ll most likely be ready to push within twenty minutes.)
I opened my eyes and saw the nurse TURN UP THE PIT! It was now at 27! I immediately was pulled out of labor land into reality. I was CLEARLY in transition, so why on earth did she think I needed more Pit? I used my best Teacher Voice and said, “You need to turn that off!” She said she couldn’t without a doctor’s order. I said, “You need to turn it down!” She said we should just wait and see how my body handled this new dose.
I said, “I’m pushing!” She ran to the end of the bed to check me, and found my DD’s head already crowning. I immediately dropped back into labor land to focus on pushing and was only partly aware of the chaos erupting around me.
One of my doctor’s few requirements of my twin birth was that I would give birth in the OR just in case. I had four nurses each grab a corner of the bed and run me down the hall while a sweet little labor tech ran next to me holding up a sheet to protect my privacy. I was half naked, turned on my side with one leg in the air, and pushing as my body directed while everyone yelled at me to stop. They were manuevering the bed into the OR when my baby was born essentially unassisted in the hallway. This was less than 5 minutes after the Pit had been turned up because my contractions “weren’t strong enough”.
I know that may sound like a horror story to many of you, but I am incredibly proud of having pushed my baby out on my own terms despite what was going on around me. I didn’t get that opportunity with my other births.
Oh, and the nurse did in fact turn the Pit off without a doctor’s order once she realized my baby was crowning.
My son’s birth 20 mintues later was so completely different, I can’t help but think of them as two separate events. I submitted his story last year here: http://myobsaidwhat.com/2011/04/04/we-all-know-how-this-will-end-so-move-out-of-the-way-let-me-start-the-spinal/#comments
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Chara Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 1:01 pm (Quote)
I love that you used your Teacher’s Voice! Good for you- speaking up for your self, ignoring everyone who told you not to push.
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Tee Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 1:15 pm (Quote)
I giggle every time I read about someone saying “don’t push.” I mean, seriously? That’s like shoving someone out of a 20 story high window and telling them “don’t fall!”
I’m so glad that your daughter’s birth happened (more or less) in a good fashion! I’m going to read about your son’s birth right now.
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K Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 1:47 pm (Quote)
What that nurse told you was a bald faced lie. There are no circumstances under which that would be a truthful statement. I’m an RN/CNM. That was bullshit.
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Heidi Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 9:30 pm (Quote)
That is a great birth story! What a stupid nurse–I wonder if she was ever corrected for mistreating you as a patient and undermining the doctor’s plan of having the twins born in the OR, not the hall?
Anyway, kudos to you!
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Details Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 7:20 am (Quote)
Heidi, to hell with the doctor’s plan to have the twins born in the OR. What about the doctor’s plan to leave the pit at 3 not 27! She was going against orders and then (as Jane suspected) lying about it to cover her ass.
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Jen Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 7:49 am (Quote)
I think my doctor (like every doctor in the area) has standing orders for the rapid induction protocol–increase the dose every 15 mintues until a good labor pattern is established or the max dose is reached, so she was probably following the standard routine. Of course, the specific orders overrule the standing orders. Not to mention I had had a good labor pattern since before the nurse came on duty. I have no idea why she thought I needed more Pit.
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Details Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 8:26 am (Quote)
No nurse should be going by standing orders for twins. The woman was incompetent and should be re-trained or fired. She didn’t check with the doctor, she ignored your well establish pattern, she lied to your face. Whatever her reason was she should be called upon to explain herself if only to insure that she doesn’t pull that stunt again. We don’t need zombie nurses who automatically turn up the pit evrytime they walk in the room.
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Ha! Do you know the number of times I’ve yanked an IV out of my own arm? Once more certainly won’t be a problem!
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Knitted in the Womb Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 8:18 pm (Quote)
My second daughter–who is quite the spunky one–ripped a hypodermic needle out of her arm when she was 5 years old. A nurse tried to “sneak up on her” to give her a vaccine instead of the normal procedure of having her cuddle up with a parent, who would hold her hands still. The nurse didn’t even warn my husband, and he was STEAMED. But we’ve all gotten a good laugh out of it after we finished being mad at the stupid nurse. Katie is such a tiny little thing…she’s 11 now and her 9 year old brother is as tall as her and 20 lbs heavier. But you don’t get ANYTHING past her that she doesn’t allow!
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Wow the label on Pitocin actually says that dosages over 12 should be used only if absolutely necessary Pit on 27 could have been catastrophic! Thats why Im refusing it all together unless absolutely necessary!
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Jen Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 2:48 pm (Quote)
I didn’t realize this. I was under the impression that the “rapid induction protocol” dosing favored by OBs called for a dose increase every 15 minutes for 6 hours. If they only increased it by 1 each time, that would still be a max dose of 24. I know this was the protocol followed with my first induction, but I don’t know by how much they increased it each time. This nurse was cranking it by 3 each time. After 6 hours it would have been at 72.
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Knitted in the Womb Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 8:27 pm (Quote)
This all depends on how the Pitocin is diluted in saline. If it is 30 units in 500 mls of saline, then you can directly read the “mls/hour” off the IV pump to figure out the “microunits/minute” dosing of the Pit. But if it is mixed in a different ratio, you can’t directly read the pump.
The package insert for Pitocin says to start at a level of 0.5-1 microunit per minute, and raise it in 1-2 microunit increments every 30-60 minutes. This is because it takes about 60 minutes for the level of Pitocin to equilibrate in the body. The package insert further says that a dose of 6 microunits per hour mimics normal labor, and levels above 10 are rarely needed in a full term pregnancy, though higher levels may be needed in premature cases.
High dose Pitocin protocols are more likely to result in fetal distress than low dose protocols.
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This could have been me! I had my first child 7 months ago via c-section after the cascade of interventions. I was induced at 41 weeks after a supposed bad NST (even though L&D said everything looked fine after they tied me to the IV and monitors). Started with cervidil then pit beginning @ 8:00 am. Things were going fine, had my water break on its own by 11:00 am and I was managing well with no pain meds until the 7pm shift change. A new nurse came on and immediately started turning up the pit. When I asked if she had she lied and said she had just checked, but I heard the beeping and my RN friend who was with me told me she did too. Several hours later I was in excruciating pain from back labor (which they told me I wasn’t having) and my daughters heart rate wasnt recovering after the contractions. I asked the nurse to turn the pit down to give us a break, and she said no. Needless to say after 4 more hrs of horrific pain later and getting the dead baby card over and over, I consented to the c-section.
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Um, I was an OB RN, and that is completely untrue. An RN can’t exceed a pit dose that an MD has ordered, but s/he is always able to decrease the dose or turn it off. That nurse is either a bald faced liar or has no idea about what her scope of practice is. I’m not sure which scenario is scarier.
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My mom actually did remove the IV after nurses ignored her request to turn off the pitocin, but since I was already out they could only be mad and tell her what a difficult patient she was, not threaten her with a dead baby. They gave her pitocin after her c-section, not for hemorrhage, just to “help her uterus shrink back down”. Do they still do this?
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Tee Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 9:08 pm (Quote)
Yes, all the time! Pitocin is routinely given either IM or IV after delivery. Unless a woman is actively hemorrhaging, it’s so unnecessary. I’d go as far as to say that it’s even dangerous.
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Casey Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 9:09 pm (Quote)
They did with mine. I had my son in 2009 and after the c-section, they loaded me up with massive amounts of pitocin because my uterus wasn’t “shrinking as fast as they’d like”. I was actually grateful that my spinal was still mostly working. What I could feel was horrible enough.
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Aron Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 5:28 am (Quote)
There is some research which suggests that prophylactic use of pitocin immediately postpartum helps prevent hemorrhage. So the latest recommendation is that all third stage management include pitocin.
BUT Those studies did not distinguish between labors which had not included augmentation and those that had. Plenty of evidence suggests that when a uterus has been stimulated by pitocin or other augmenting methods throughout labor, afterward it will either be too tired or simply unresponsive to the body’s own signals to clamp down effectively. In other words, they are creating the very problem this blanket policy is designed to solve. A rare situation in obstetrics, I know.
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RJ Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 1:03 pm (Quote)
Yes. And even after unmedicated labours it is often still warranted, and especially if labour has been long. A tired uterus is ripe for a haemorrhage, even with good management (ie no cord traction etc) and pitocin post delivery is often better than a bleed which can make lactogenesis II (ie the milk coming in) later.
My crunchy granola midwife was actually pretty strong in her recommendation of syntocin (Pitocin is the US name for the drug) after delivery, as I’d had a 24 hour labour and delivery and my uterus was tired. While it probably is overused in third stage management, it is important to remember that haemorrhage was a major cause of post-natal death in the ‘olden days’. So, even with good and non-interventive labour care, syntocin in third stage is one of those interventions that just can’t be blindly dismissed. However, whatever happened to the right of informed refusal?
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My niece (of blessed memory), who was severely brain damaged from a vaccine that is no longer given in the US, pulled her PICC line out when my sister turned her head to grab something (tape, maybe?). If *she* can do it, by golly, so can any competent adult. Which should include almost any of us reading this.
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I would have walked out after taking the iv out myself. Gone home and then had the baby there in the safety and comfort of my own sparkly clean sanitized bath tub.
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Details Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 7:36 am (Quote)
Did you even read the pink link? She was crowning! Even if she has ripped out the IV she still would have had twin #1 crowning! I can’t see anybody making it all the way home at that point. Sure maybe she could have had one baby in the elevator and the second in the car, but I don’t see how she should be expected to make it all the way home to her sanitized tub. That is just silly talk.
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The machines are pretty clearly marked. I’d have turned it off myself (ripping out an IV HURTS and I don’t think I could do it myself!). But honestly, when you’re at the point that you’re saying to turn it off/down, you’re not usually capable of either ripping it out OR messing with the machine.
Having had a pit contraction that almost killed me and my baby, it effing sucks.
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teapot Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 6:11 pm (Quote)
It’s been so long since I attended a birth, I have forgotten what I did know about dosing pit, and I know IV pumps are different. But removing an IV is really not difficult and I have never found them particularly painful (YMMV, though.) Getting the tape off is the most difficult part to do without hurting the person.
When my son was in jr high, he needed some IV meds every 8 hours for 48 hours. A home health nurse came to our house, placed the hep lock & showed me how to push the meds. When it came time to remove it, the neuro’s nurse was horrified that I was going to do it, so I called the home health nurse. Her response was that she’d be glad to come out, but did I *really* need her to? I didn’t think so, told her my plan was to remove the tape carefully, fold a gauze pad, place it over the insertion site, pull the thing out & then put a band-aid over the gauze. “You don’t need me, but you know where to find me if you do. Go for it!”
That was close to 15 years ago, and my son seems to have survived it intact!
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Tee Reply:
January 9th, 2012 at 6:32 pm (Quote)
I’ve done something similar, teapot! When my aunt was so sick with cancer, she was living with us so I could take care of her. (Her husband had to work.) My Mom took her to the ER in the middle of the night because she was hurting so bad. They started the IV and gave her meds and then once she got more comfortable, they sent her home… without pulling the line! The next morning we realized she still had the IV in and when Mom called the hospital, they told her to bring her back in so they could pull it. I was horrified! Here she hurts so badly that just touching her made her cry and being in the car was absolute agony for her. I told Mom, “Screw this!” and pulled it myself.
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This reminds me of my second birth. I had not wanted an epidural because I was (and AM) convinced that being overly medicated caused my first to be a c-section, but the only doctor I could find who was willing to “let” me VBAC insisted that an epidural was absolutely mandatory. (Yeah, he laughed at me and berated me when I tried to talk to him about my birth plan.)
So there I was laboring with my unwanted epidural, and I kept begging the nurses to turn it down as low as possible. Instead, every time I made a sound of any kind, they’d pester me, “Is it PAIN or PRESSURE?” and then they’d TURN THE DAMN EPIDURAL UP!
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OK, I’ll take my IV out. How about that?
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Lexie Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 5:24 am Lexie(Quote)
That was exactly what I thought when I saw that quote.
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Sarah Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 6:11 am Sarah(Quote)
This. If it’s posted here, it’s more likely a nurse blowing off mom’s wishes than a nurse afraid of getting in trouble with doc.
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Lisa Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 8:09 am Lisa(Quote)
That was the exact image that popped into my mind, ripping out the IV.
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Bonita Reply:
January 8th, 2012 at 11:41 am Bonita(Quote)
Yep, at that point I would be taking it out myself and telling her to turn it off or it will start “inducing” the floor. lol
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