Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
“…When You Are Bleeding To Death Is A Really Bad Time To Place An IV.”
“You really should rethink not having a Hep-Lock or IV because when you’re bleeding to death is a really bad time to place an IV.” -OB going over birth plan with mother.
Funny. When I had my first they thought two pushes before she was born was a perfect time to place an IV. Not that they hadn’t tried to coerce me into getting one earlier, but they did something to scare me into consenting right before the baby was born. I could have done without it. The nurse had no problem at all getting it into my forearm in about 15 seconds.
Also, I’ve been in the situation where I was bleeding to death. (missed miscarriage, lost half my blood volume) I thought it was a great time to place an IV. Likewise, this EMT had no problem at all placing that IV.
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Sheva Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 3:54 pm (Quote)
There are those with good phlebotomy skills and those with lousy ones.
This doc clearly has no faith in his own skills or his team’s.
Way to go, doc.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 8:20 pm (Quote)
This is a needle.
This is an orange. Probably better for teaching techniques of intramuscular injection, but hey, you have to start somewhere…
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Ok, so seeing as how you’re not going to be pulling on the cord (right?) the chances of a healthy, unstressed-by-pitocin uterus bleeding to death is low. Very low, in fact.
So, IF I start bleeding heavily after the birth, before the ‘to-death’ part, put the IV in then, OK?
Really.
Docs treat every birth as dangerous and life threatening until after the fact. They’ll only classify a birth as safe in hindsight.
Midwives treat each birth as safe and natural unless something specific goes wrong and needs to be dealt with.
I like midwives.
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You don’t need an IV to stop or at least slow a hemorrhage. Intramuscular injection will do it, and even if that doesn’t stop it, it buys enough time to place an IV.
Scare tactics are so annoying.
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Serene Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 6:59 am (Quote)
uh, no, IMI will NOT do it. I disagree with the idiot doc above’s comment, but if you are losing blood, IMI will do bugger all. Why? Because it requires adequate blood flow to be absorbed, and if you are losing blood, you are not going to HAVE adequate blood flow.
Place the IV when it is needed. Not before.
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Serene Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 7:01 am (Quote)
uh, no, IMI will NOT do it. I disagree with the idiot doc above’s comment, but if you are losing blood, IMI will do bugger all. Why? Because it requires adequate blood flow to be absorbed, and if you are losing blood, you are not going to HAVE adequate blood flow.
Place the IV when it is needed. Not before.
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Amelia Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:34 am (Quote)
Serene, that’s funny, because an intramuscular injection of Pitocin did save my mother from bleeding to death after my brother was born.
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Serene Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 9:09 pm (Quote)
Then chances are she was having a rapid bleed (not a full haemorrhage) caused by her uterus not contracting down due to some idiot doc mistreating it, or it was injected into or above a vein.
A haemorrhage (not just a “bleed”) requires IV therapy for the fluids it gives. Any decent doctor can place an IV in an emergency faster than it takes for IMI to work.
Hence, place an IV in the event of a haemorrhage. Not “in case of” but IF IT HAPPENS.
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Serene Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 9:20 pm (Quote)
Sorry I should clarify, we differentiate this way between the 2 here and I forget that it is a very local classification (part of a study). What we classify as a Haemorrhage would NOT be stemmed by IMI and does require IV, but we do not place them until needed. We classify these as bleeds which usually have started AFTER the uterus has clamped down, as a sudden and rapid increase in blood flow unchanged by altering position or LS pressure.
Incidentally, we prep the pit the same way, just change the needle tip to a plastic bung if we find we need to.
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What’s funny is that we don’t walk around with hep locks in case we get hit by a car and start bleeding out, just like we don’t avoid eating and drinking for hours before getting in the car, lest we have an accident and need emergency surgery.
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So what, exactly, is the big deal with a saline lock? You *can* place an emergent IV….I *can* shove the trach tube back in my patient who just pulled it out, too…that doesn’t mean that doing something ahead of time is stupid or a bad idea. All of my patients have SL, because if something goes to shit, one less thing to do is a good thing. It’s a stick….big freaking deal.
You are going to have an unmedicated birth and you are crying like a little girl over a 20 gauge jelco? WTH?
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Cmat Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 5:12 pm (Quote)
WTH? The WTH is that some women, while not afraid of natural childbirth, really don’t like needles. Doesn’t matter if the gauge is small or larger, needles kinda suck. Then there’s also the thought that that IV places us one step closer to the doctor trying to coerce us into pitocin or some other intervention that we don’t want and don’t need.
So what exactly is the big deal with leaving things the hell alone until it is actually needed? You *can* place an emergent IV, so do it when it is actually emergent, not before. Might also be a good idea to not mess with things that are going well, just slower than you’d like. If you don’t mess with stuff, there’s less likelihood that we’ll need emergency services.
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fuzzy Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 5:17 pm (Quote)
Again, a little advance planning is a good thing. Don’t be stupid.
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Cmat Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 6:20 pm (Quote)
Goes both ways, Dear. Don’t be stupid and do something that would make a patient need it.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 6:39 pm (Quote)
I do a LOT of advance planning.
Which is why I chose to give birth at home for my third and fourth times around. I planned to avoid iatrogenic complications from bullshit hospital routines and defensive obstetric medicine.
I learned quite a lot from my first two births, both of which took place in hospital settings, and both of which I hadn’t prepared adequately for (the first because it was my first time and I was a lemming, the second because I didn’t know I was in premature labour until my baby was almost out).
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Serene Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 7:12 am (Quote)
I would have been afraid to have you at my last labour. I have type 1 diabetes, Graves Hyperthyroidism and all the wonderful issues that go with it. One recommendation (not from MY Ob, thanks Christ) was that I have an IV in my non-dominant arm for augmentation of Labour, one IV placed in my other arm for the insulin and glucose I was “definitely going to need”, and an epidural for in case I needed a CS.
How many of those needles do you think I ended up needing? Only one. ONE. The induction set was the ONLY line I had, and the ONLY line I needed.
FYI I needed to be induced because my antithyroid antibody levels were spiking and it was becoming dangerous for me to be pregnant (heart strain etc).
I managed my Glucose levels in labour with light snacks of clear jelly and juice, and checked my levels regularly. They stayed between 4.6 and 6.2mmol/L the whole time. I had my insulin as per normal as I needed it, and as for wanting me to have an epi, well screw that. I have Migraines as is, any CS would have been done under GA and they KNEW that and I was STILL able to eat as needed because it is preferable to sticking things in someone that does not need it.
So no. Pre-epmtive jabbing is not a good thing unless you KNOW there is no other way to do things and you KNOW you will need it.
If you want to slam me on this go ahead. I am a Registered Nurse, and I have been an EMT for 10 years. I dont even give a pre-emptive SC butterfly to my palliative pain patients!
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Jane Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 5:45 pm (Quote)
But surely you agree that the mother ought to be able to make an informed decision, knowing the risks, to either allow placement of a hep-lock or not.
The mother does legally have rights over her own body, and she deserves the correct information, given respectfully, in order to make her informed decision.
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Semi-crunchy Mama Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 6:35 pm (Quote)
There isn’t anything wrong with a saline lock IF the mother wants one. IF it’s needed. Why should I be hooked up the second I walk through the door?
I had my daughter in the hospital with an OB and a Hep-Lock or IV was NEVER mentioned. It wasn’t needed. If a situation were to arise where I needed one, obviously I would consent. Being in labor is not that situation.
If it were truly an emergency and I was hemorrhaging I sure hope the OB knows there are other, faster actions to take other than worrying about an IV.
And to play the death card? Really? Especially with my three year old in the room? Classy.
For what it’s worth, my original OB said she would prefer I had a Hep-Lock, but we discussed it and she was respectful of me not having one. There are different ways to approach the topic.
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Melissa Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 7:42 pm (Quote)
Well, for one thing, the last time I had an IV line, though they’d unhooked me from the saline drip, the nurse felt free to come up to me and start injecting something into the port WITHOUT FIRST ASKING MY PERMISSION. I had to jerk my hand away and tell her NO. When I asked her what it was, it turned out to be a drug that was inappropriate for my particular situation. The doctor (I happened to be in the ER) had cherry picked the symptoms to pay attention to…I had come in for exhaustion and shortness of breath, but because he could *make* me experience some dizziness by forcing my head all the way to one side (just try it, it’ll make you dizzy on a normal day) he decided to treat me for that. I felt like I was too exhausted to keep my eyes open or head up, and was feeling short of breath, and he wanted to give me a sedative for the “dizziness.” Right. When I was *this* close to blacking out.
When a woman is in “labor land” she doesn’t always have the presence of mind to protect herself like that. This site is replete with stories about women receiving medications (pain relief or otherwise) that they did not consent to…through their IVs or saline locks when they’re zoned out/using Hypnobabies/in the middle of a contraction/pushing/otherwise BUSY giving birth.
I don’t need to feel vulnerable when I’m giving birth. I don’t need to have something ELSE to protect from people who don’t always remember (or bother) to ask permission first. I don’t need to have tape all over my hand and wrist and a needle sticking into me. (I don’t even wear sunglasses because I hate having something on my face, and I cut all the tags out of my clothes…an IV stuck INTO my skin bothers the snot outta me.) That’s why, if I’m healthy and low risk and baby’s fine and everything’s going swimmingly…
I won’t get an IV. I won’t get a saline lock. Keep an eye on me, remind me to keep hydrated, etc., by all means. But no “just in case” measures unless it looks likely that I might actually benefit from them.
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Dee Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 10:13 am (Quote)
BEAUTIFULLY said! Those were all the things I was thinking about. I had little choice in a care provider, and she wanted the hep lock. The nurse kept this intervention away as long as she could (doc found out and got onto her about it). When the phlebotomist came in, I had to “leave” labor land, change position, and I momentarily lost my concentration. She said something dumb, like “Just don’t pay any attention to me…” and I glared at her and said, “When you’re sticking me with that thing, how can I not?” It took a while to get back to labor land, and dammit, every time I rolled around and changed position, I banged it on something, which hurt and again, momentary loss of focus. As it turns out, I DID have pp bleeding, but IM methergine helped, and when it was time to get fluids, it was not an ER episode, but a relatively quiet procedure–they could have gotten it in then without a problem, I am certain. (I sucked on ice chips and drank OJ). I thought the heplock fairly sucked…much more than unmedicated birth did. I had one helluva bruise for a few weeks, too.
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Mama Mirage Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:06 pm (Quote)
EXACTLY. They put things in my sister’s during her labor that they never got consent for. And one time I was in the ER for a gallbladder attack and they kept giving me things in mine without asking or telling me what they were doing. I had to tell the nurse to stop it TWICE. The point is that it’s MY body and having a needle in my just in case is what I call an unnecessary intervention. It’s MY choice and I choose not to have any unnecessary interventions. Especially of this sort which invites more unnecessary interventions and more disrespect for informed consent. Last thing I need in labor is people putting drugs in my veins without telling or asking what they are doing. I’m busy. I am laboring, pushing, doing a very difficult job here. I don’t need to waste my focus telling nurses repeatedly to stop injecting whatever drugs into me. And bottom line, needed or not, it’s MY choice.
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Melissa Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 7:45 pm (Quote)
By the way…
“You are going to have an unmedicated birth and you are crying like a little girl over a 20 gauge jelco? WTH?”
…*I* get to pick what bothers me, not you.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 8:32 pm (Quote)
Oh, yeah, that’s another thing. I get to pick who, if anybody, assists at my birth, or provides labour support. Homebirth gives me that control. Not only can I hire a midwife at an affordable price (well, relatively affordable) without playing “Mother, May I” with an insurance company or, worse, Medicaid (there are few Medicaid doctors in my area, and almost no midwives) but I can avoid playing Russian Roulette: Nursing Care in the maternity ward.
Let’s face it, while the Nurse Ratchets of the world definitely deserve an obnoxious control freak like me, I do not deserve to have to put up with *them*.
The sizes of the needles I get jabbed with (assuming I allow it) are irrelevant. I do in fact have sensory hypersensitivities and dislike being jabbed, but I have so many other hypersensitivities that my distaste for jabs is of relatively low priority. Let’s face it, labour and birth is going to screw up a sensory diet to begin with.
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Knitted the Womb Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 5:30 am (Quote)
LOL…YES!
My second birth (second unmedicated birth) was the one that I did have a saline lock for. I was GBS positive, so needed antibiotics, and I ended up being induced with Prepidil, so that put me at higher risk of hemmorhage.
Well guess what, I DID hemmorhage. When the nurse came to give me some IM Pitocin (yes, IM, even though I had the saline lock in–she put some in via IV as well), I winced, ask the nurse to give me a minute to prepare, and had to steel myself to tolerate the shot. I laughed about the dicotomy to the nurse.
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Mama Mirage Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:09 pm (Quote)
Precisely! In the absense of a current and pressing emergency the one and only thing that matters is that it’s the MOTHER’S CHOICE. Period.
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Knitted in the Womb Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 5:23 am (Quote)
Well, I’ve had 5 babies, 4 without saline locks, and one with–due to GBS. So let me explain a bit.
I’m not scared of needles–I’m a regular blood donor. BUT…having a saline lock in labor, while not the end of the world, is a major PIA. When I had mine in I kept hitting it on stuff that was sitting in the hospital hallway when I was walking around. When I went into the Jacuzzi I had to keep that arm up out of the water. When I did “hands & knees” it hurt BIG time.
Like I said, not the end of the world…but it was a PIA. And seeing that I didn’t need it with 4 of my births, I was happy to go without. If risk factors had developed that would have indicated I was at more risk of needing an IV, I would have allowed a saline lock to be placed. But as long as I was low risk, there was really no need.
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Courtney Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 5:33 am (Quote)
The big deal is that a friend was told they were just giving her the IV in case and giving her a saline drip when in fact they gave her pitocin without her permission thorugh that IV and it ended in c-section partially due to the pit drip. I would also have NOT been allowed out of bed with the IV due to our hospital policy or in the shower either and that is where I wanted to labor so to you it might not be a big deal, but it was to me. I hemorrhaged with my first and got a shot of pit because it was quicker and I STILL DID NOT get the IV “just in case” with my second. BTW I did NOT hemorrhage with the second either.
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 6:37 am (Quote)
THe biggest problem here is not from a needle stick, but rather – as someone else pointed out – that they aren’t giving you a choice, and really cannot explain their reasoning for it. What are the chances of bleeding out? Don’t you think you’d notice it first? How about we treat it IF it happens, instead of say that it WILL happen? Big difference. It’s a gateway to more crap that oftentimes women don’t want and don’t need. They see it as easy access to do with you what they want, yet can’t tell you that there is NO real need for it.
Funny thing about IV’s. … in my one vaginal birth I had IV access because I’d had antibiotic for GBS. I’m sure they left the port in, “just in case.” In that situation, I was having a VBAC, and suppose things did go wrong – I’ll give them that. But really, the iV was more freaking painful than the contractions. Every time I’ve had an IV run – during labor, after a c-section for “pain relief” – it hurt like crazy. I mean, burning, stinging, the works – completely up my harm. So for my VBAC, the IV actually took my mind off the pain of labor – it *was* a PITA and hurt a lot, yes, but was actually like a built-in TENS machine, of sorts. As far as the IV after my first section, the one that was “supposed” to deliver pain meds – it actually caused more pain than relieved it and was a complete waste. Perhaps the whole idea of sticking you early in order to be ‘prepared’ is really giving them time to do six needle sticks on you because they can’t find a vein (that happened right before my last section). Idiots.
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adrienne Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 9:22 am (Quote)
I’ll cry like a little girl over whatever I want, kthx.
I’ve had 4 uncomplicated unmedicated home births, and no sticks of any kind. I’d have been pissed if anyone tried to stick me FOR NO REASON “just in case”. ever hear that part about how anxiety and stress can slow labor? well, some people have needle anxiety. I’d have been nauseous, possibly passed out, if I had to labor with a needle stuck in me.
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xanthina Reply:
September 5th, 2010 at 8:28 pm (Quote)
My ADD makes me hyper stimulated. I can deal rather well with deep muscle pain, but an IV/Hep-Lock would have driven me insane. I’d have picked at the tape, touched it, fiddled with it, been pissed at it, and likely taken it out. I’ve been a blood donor and then a Red Cross platelet apheresis donor for years. I know what it is to sit for 1-3 hours with needles in my veins. I refused the Hep-Lock, because I knew what it would do to my coping skills.
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The EMT was able to insert 2 IVs when I had a pph. It was not a big deal at all. And Fuzzy it is okay to have an opinion, but I sure hope you don’t speak that way to patients who disagree with you. I can respect and understand your position and yet strongly disagree without digressing to the use of foul language. I think people listen bettter to opposing arguments when they are stated kindly and professionally.
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I walked out of that appointment knowing that I would never step foot in the office again.
My original OB had already okay’ed my birth plan (with no Hep-Lock), but then had a family emergency and was to be out of the office until after my due date. We set up a meet and greet with a midwife and kept our next appt at the OB’s office. It was the other OB who said this to me when I asked if all the OBs in the office were on the same page because my birth plan had already been signed off on.
My husband asked if her comment upset me and, surprisingly, it didn’t. It only provided all the confirmation I would ever need that we were doing the right thing in transferring care. It was a bit nerve-wracking transferring at 33weeks pregnant, but there was no longer any question in my mind it was what we had to do.
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If I were in danger of bleeding to death from ordinary life events such as childbirth, which is usually as routine and straightforward as breastfeeding, sneezing, making love, etc, then I’d have been born with a hep lock in my arm.
I don’t see a hep lock.
Oh, well. It looks like I probably don’t need one.
If I’m bleeding to death due to an undiagnosed placental abruption, or a botched medical procedure, it is perfectly appropriate to insert IVs in me and hydrate me and give me transfusions and so on. It takes seconds to insert the IV. I’m sure that leaves plenty of time to stabilize me.
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not until you’ve seen a pregnant woman bleed out, code and then arrest do you understand how important those ‘three seconds’ are. Try finding a vein on someone with hardly any blood volume. most people you can. But do you really want to be the one woman who they couldnt find one on?
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 8:42 pm (Quote)
Ah, yes. “Every labour and birth is dysfunctional, a true medical emergency, until proven otherwise in retrospect, so we must treat all labouring mothers like invalids and trauma cases just in case this labour results in trauma. Active management is key. All hospital routines and obstetric policies are for the good of the patient. All that matters is a healthy (i.e. living) baby. You don’t want a dead mother or a dead baby, do you? Because that’s what happens when mothers put their selfish birth fantasies and cravings ahead of the routines WE know are best for everybody.”
I call bullshit.
And given the miniscule chances of severe trauma from blood loss happening during labour or after birth – chances made even more miniscule when routine interventions such as overaggressive Pitocin augmentation, manual traction of the umbilical cord, stress-inducing starvation of the mother, episiotomies, etc are avoided – yes, I’ll take my chances of being the woman with the invisible veins after severe blood loss. The odds are in my favour.
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CCindy Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 4:55 am (Quote)
No, then again I’m glad I wasn’t in the car the day my first husband had his accident. When your time is up your time is up. None of us get out of this life alive. The doctor was reacting in an emotional manner and skewing the truth. And apparently he did it in front of a 3 year old. I wouldn’t want him anywhere near me every again. The point isn’t the lock. The point is the doctor pulled the dead mommy card to coerce the patient. If he can’t conduct himself in a professional manner during a meet and greet I sure don’t want to have to “keep an eye on him” during Labor and Delivery.
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 6:54 am (Quote)
But yet, how many women have you seen suffering from severe hemorrhaging? Probably, in the general scheme of things, not that many. And now, because a small percentage of women do hemorrhage in labor, we are all treated as if we *all* will, even though the risk is still low. That’s how so many interventions have become commonplace – because now everyone is treated as “high risk” even when they aren’t.
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Serene Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 7:17 am (Quote)
Jujebes, I can find a vein in a 12yo boy half upside-down in a car, while hanging in the window and Im not even a doctor. I call BS.
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jubejubes Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 10:54 am (Quote)
Hey, feel free to have a home birth, a car birth, a whatever birth: just dont threaten to sue the doctor when things go wrong. I’m perfectly happy to see a normal, low risk delivery and wouldnt worry about extra medications, IV’s and what not – maybe if people stopped suing medical professionals, we wouldn’t be constantly trying to trounce people’s ‘rights’ by covering our ass. You call bullshit, i call trying to make a living without some heart-broken mother suing me either FOR a) putting in an IV and messing with her birth plan or b) for delivering a delayed child who now has CP because of birth complications, c) or dealing with a father who has lost his spouse secondary to complications with delivery.
After seeing 40-50 pregnant women a day with their own oh-so-very-special birth plans it becomes a little old and at the end of the day, I’ll do what i think is safe. Don’t like it? the bathtub is always there.
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Laura Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:10 am (Quote)
If you think like that you should probably ask yourself if you chose the right job – I know lots of OBs who work IN hospitals and can still accept that people and births are individual.
It’s not about what you think – and iT#s not safer in the end.
If you want to prove it, make a big study with your 40-50 woman per day who don’t have the right to get the treatment they asked for.
Then we can see if you’re right. Because as you said – it’s not about what’ safer but about covering your ass.
Strange that midwives take many more “risks” with all the out-of-hospital-births you proposed and although they don’t “cover their ass” all the time still don’t get in trouble every day…
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CCindy Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:53 am (Quote)
You sound like an unsafe provider. 40-50 laboring women a day. You can’t possible be primary to all of them. You shouldn’t be working with more than 1 or 2 at a time. Bottom line is we don’t like one-size-fits all. If that is all you are capable of GET OUT!
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CCindy Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:56 am (Quote)
Wait a minute, you said pregnant women a day. So maybe you should cut it back to 20 or so a day. 20 minutes each 8 hours, 24 patients. If you are seeing 50 you aren’t spending enough time with them. You also aren’t labor sitting. This is not a good for you or your patients.
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CCindy Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:12 pm (Quote)
See it isn’t just you or the bathtub. There are other choices out there. My first doctor was an a$$ who did what he thought was safe without asking my permission. He stripped my membranes without permission when I was slightly past due in spite of the fact that my family always delivers late. If he had taken the time to discuss it with me, I would have explained why it wasn’t warrented in my particular case. Result iatrogenic c-section. Now my second doctor diagnosed transverse lie with broken waters and a previous c-section and recommended that we proceed to the OR but asked me what I wanted to do. Which one do you think I went back to for my 3rd birth? How is your repete business JubeJubes? Are you routienly rude to your patients or is this board just pissing you off today?
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 5:53 pm (Quote)
Hmm. Sow the wind, jubejubes, and reap the whirlwind. Sounds like pretty soon, you may need to watch out for flying cows. Or maybe falling houses.
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Melissa Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:30 pm (Quote)
jujubes–
If you are fine with transferring your legal risk to me as a health risk, I don’t want you as my doctor. Ever. For anything.
I’m sorry the legal system sucks for doctors. But that doesn’t make it okay for doctors to risk my life–or my baby’s–over the chance that I’ll sue. By the way…the legal system sucks for moms, too. Unless we have dramatic physical scarring to show for it, most of the time the bad apple medical professionals who lie to us, violate our bodies, operate on us against our will, compromise our babies’ health, give us PTSD, or generally treat us like garbage….well, they get away with it. Because we didn’t die, and the only other thing that matters is a “healthy baby” (at least “healthy” in terms of still alive and mostly functioning, no scars).
Neither one of those situations is fair, is it? But we moms try very, very hard not to take it out on doctors unless they have proven to us that they deserve it. Hence this site, as few other avenues are open to us.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 5:46 pm (Quote)
I wonder if hep locks are any more effective as troll/burned-out-”care”-provider repellants than they are as insurance policies against exceedingly rare birth emergencies?
The hard part would be getting the medical professional to sit nice and still and accept the hep lock.
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 7:47 pm (Quote)
Just because you “see” that many pregnant women a day does NOT give you the right to treat them like any less of a person. They are each individuals, remember? If you don’t like it, then please – do yourself and them a favor and FIND A NEW JOB. Put yourself in their shoes for one second and ask, “Would I want this done to me without my consent?”
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Serene Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:22 pm (Quote)
Jubejubes, lucky for me I cant sue the doctor because unlike you I live in a country where the system is not broken and the people are not bucking repair. I live in Australia. If I do not consent to a procedure, it is not done. Simple. If I do not consent to something that WILL save my life and I die, the doctor CANNOT be sued because I did not consent. However if something is done AGAINST my wishes NO MATTER WHAT THE OUTCOME IF I AM LUCID WHEN I REFUSE and REMAIN lucid, he can be figuratively arse-raped because it is assault without cause. Things here work the right way around. Both patient and doctor are covered in their own right. Preparing for the worst is not the goal of every single delivery. Try it some time.
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Poogles Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 10:12 am (Quote)
“If I do not consent to something that WILL save my life and I die, the doctor CANNOT be sued because I did not consent.”
If only that were also true in the US, it would help OB’s relax a little. However, there have been (and there continue to be) cases of malpractice where the mother claims that yes, she did decline the intervention, and yes the OB did explain the risks – BUT, the mother claims she didn’t really UNDERSTAND the risks. And wins, because the jury feels sympathy for her.
For some discussion of informed consent and malpractice cases:
http://www.physiciansnews.com/law/404roediger.html
http://www.medicalmalpractice.com/Informed-Consent.cfm
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Rachel Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 5:00 pm (Quote)
I’m thoroughly glad I had a wonderful, caring nurse during my delivery. You’re the kind of person that gives health care professionals a bad name and the reason that so many of the women on this site are completely anti OB/ Hospital/ Medical births. I’m so glad I had the experience that I did and sorry that so many women on here ended up with someone like you.
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BeckyMomma Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 11:10 pm (Quote)
Yeah, but that’s what interoseous is for, those rare times you can’t get the stick but MUST move fluid volume into the patient. Hurts like h$1l, but if you’re truly dying…
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jubejubes Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 10:24 am (Quote)
sooo. slamming a massive needles in through someone’s bone and then hitting their marrow to give them fluids is preferably to “being prepared’ and putting in an iv. I mean, both are excellent ways to fluid resuscitate in a trauma…but…really??
as for sowing the wind, reaping the whirlwind, That’s just how I see things, i’m being honest, and of course, it’s not just me – most conversations between health care providers end up being bitching about individual plans. The only rationale i can come up with is that it helps us cope with the volume. We cant really see less people because the volume is JUST. THERE. if we dont see them, quite often they will get no care – not alternative care, not medical care, nothing. Maybe i see more emergencies (inner city hospital) and the numbers are skewed so that my mindset is not as used to hearing suburban birth plans (mostly it’s women who are to altered/high to understand) so that hearing the kvetching about things on this board are a little shocking. And no, i plan not to work in suburbia. I like my job, I also like not being sued and having a healthy outcome (yes “healthy” as one poster defined it).
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BeckyMomma Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 4:11 pm (Quote)
I would have to say, yeah. I’d prefer interosseous for something I really really really need to an IV I probably don’t/won’t. IV’s are a gateway intervention; it’s marijuana for medical professionals.
IMHO.
If I were a drugged up crack whore momma instead of a crunchy momma, I’d probably be begging for the IV…there’s a thought.
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CCindy Reply:
September 8th, 2010 at 5:51 am (Quote)
I believe IV’s are actually the doctor’s lucky rabbit’s foot. It makes them feel safe. Personally I’ve always gotten the IV. None of them have ever fallen out. And no one has ever introduced drugs through it without my knowledge. But any doctor who played the dead baby or dead mother card on me would be replaced immediately. End of story. That would break the trust and it would be all over. Doctor who don’t understand that need to pay attention.
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CCindy Reply:
September 8th, 2010 at 5:37 am (Quote)
I’m glad you are out there in the inner city taking care of people you disdain who would otherwise give birth in an ally and throw the baby in a dumpster. But that is not my world. In my world there is an award winning hospital two blocks from my house with a 47% c-section rate. I consider that a problem. and I don’t want one-size fits all medical care for my healthy non-drinking non-smoking body when that “size” also fits your crack whore. I’ve been treated with respect by most doctors. Any doctor who fails to treat me with respect is easily replaced. That is my world.
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Krista Reply:
September 8th, 2010 at 11:49 am (Quote)
Bathtub it is! Well, next to the bathtub since I got out briefly to check on the hubby and the little man decided to come before I could slip back in. It was the best birth ever! No IV, no pit, no epi, no catheter…NO OB! In two pushes I gave birth to a perfectly healthy (not just alive, but healthy) baby boy born in the caul!
I wonder if you see the irony in your statements. It’s EXACTLY THOSE type of statements that cause women to choose to birth unassisted (with or without prenatal care) so in essence, you’re part of the cause instead of being part of the solution. If you have that many clients, there’s definitely a problem which is not wholely yours to correct. Support midwives for low-risk pregnancies (I know, every pregnancy’s high-risk in your mind, but to put it bluntly, you’re wrong.). They can take some of the load off, give mamas a real birth experience instead of a surgery-in-waiting, and allow you to focus on those who really NEED your attention – certainly more than your current maximum of 12 minutes of it. This gives your remaining patients better outcomes and you might even be able to watch them enough that not everything has to be done just in case you’re too busy to get to it right away. Sorry you won’t make the cash that you do right now, though, with the fewer c-sections, IV’s, pitocin drips, and epidurals that you get to charge for when patient #1 looks exactly like patient #40. Maybe that’s the problem. Docs worry about litigation because they can’t remember who’s who and they’re afraid if not everyone has the same thing they’ll screw it up. Overwork, exhaustion, burnout, and one-size-fits-all care is a good reason to fear litigation. That’s when you f**k up the most. It sounds to me like many of your patients would be better off in their bathtubs.
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Dreamy Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 1:24 pm (Quote)
And how many of those have you seen relative to the percentage of ER patients who come in with non-critical complaints and end up hemorrhaging? Even people who come into the ER with blood loss in process (say, a miscarriage) don’t get an automatic heplock at the door.
Not to mention that many OTHER “standard” hospital procedures increase the risk of hemorrhage, and if this woman was declining them, she’d be even less likely to have a hemorrhage.
All your comment serves to illustrate is how consistently pregnant women receive blanket treatment based on worst case scenarios, (almost) no matter how rare. And that they are irrationally and unscientifically treated as ticking time bombs more so than almost any other kind of patient.
In the scheme of things, a heplock is not the worst intervention out there. I’d (maybe) have it if I HAD to be in a hospital and they INSISTED.
The bigger issue is that a woman made a reasonable request and has been met with the most extreme possible scare tactic. Real respectful. Real responsible.
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In all fairness, in a hemorrhage the IV is more useful for replacing fluids rather than meds. So in a hemorrhage, IM injections won’t necessarily be enough. So in a hemorrhage, you do need an IV, or two.
That said, there’s no real reason a woman needs an IV the second they walk in the room. There’s got to be at least one person on the unit who can quickly and effectively throw in an IV or two in an emergency situation. I can and I have. If you, random healthcare provider, can’t place an IV in an emergency, then perhaps acute care in the hospital isn’t really a good fit for you.
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GranolaRN Reply:
August 31st, 2010 at 7:38 pm (Quote)
correction: That said, there’s no real reason a woman needs an IV the second they walk in the room, or at all for that matter.
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THe Deranged Housewife Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 6:45 am (Quote)
Exactly. Instead of blame the patient for the lack of wanting an IV and treating every pregnancy and labor situation as a dire emergency, perhaps the nurses/staff on the floor should be better able to get a stick quickly.
I came in to deliver my last child and was fully dilated with a breech baby. Automatic c-section. After about six tries, the only person who could get a needle stick on me was the anesthesiologist himself.
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jubejubes Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 10:56 am (Quote)
oh dear. that must have taken longer than three seconds….
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Heather P Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 12:18 pm (Quote)
Yeah, it’d be nice to have competent care providers wouldn’t it?
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
September 1st, 2010 at 6:07 pm (Quote)
Hey, I had VERY competent care providers during my last two pregnancies. As a bonus, my midwives gave me far more of their time and attention, except when I specifically said, “I need to be left alone now that I’m in labour,” and charged me a tenth of what obstetricians charge.
Let’s hear it for freedom of reproductive choice. Also freedom of the market, in its classic, Adam Smith-ian form. I chose competence, respectful care, and homebirth with midwives, with the plan to hightail it to the ER in the unlikely event of something actually going wrong, which is what most homebirthers and their care providers plan in case of emergency. If enough mothers choose this approach, or something similar (say, birth in a freestanding birthing centre) then uh-oh, looks like you’ve got some serious competition.
No wonder the message I keep hearing from doctors, television shows about doctors, television shows by doctors, etc is “Your selfishness will kill you or your baby; and besides, you can’t make it outside of a hospital setting because there’s no such thing as a DIY epidural, and you can’t bear the pain of labour without an epidural, silly goose.” Because without that message being broadcast at us pretty much constantly, you’d be out of business.
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@fuzzy:
I’m a doctor, too. Placing an IV is bodily harm just as everything else where you actually hurt someone. If you do it in consent and with a good enough medical reason, you’re on the safe side and it’s fine.
There is no good enough reason to do this in advance – it takes 10 seconds for someone who has practice and normally young mothers have good veins. If you really think in one specific case that it is a big problem, you can still INDIVIDUALLY talk to this woman about it.
Having an IV somewhere clearly makes you feel less comfortable as you try not to touch it, not to get caught somewhere and so on – and for most mummys it’s not as normal as for us medical people who see it every day – and they feel insecure.
If you think every woman should have it – than there is so many more things in life where you would need to act in advance.
Putting everything in it’s place so you can start right away is enough advance – how many mother’s did someone see bleading to death because they didn’t have an IV?
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I’m a veterinarian. I can place an IV in a shocky hit-by-car in less than 30 seconds, even though my patients require clipping and are much smaller than adult women (especially the cats).
There’s no good reason to insist upon instant IV access for every laboring woman.
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Also, when you consider the rapidly rising rates of MRSA and other iatrogenic infections (the last number I heard was 1 in 4 people admitted to hospitals aquire one), do we really want to add yet another point of entry on the off chance that NOBODY will be able to get a vein in the RARE instance of severe hemmorhage?
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Let me also throw this out there: My IV when I had my daughter (which I consented to because it was a condition of having the epidural) was not particularly problematic (though I did ask to have it removed ASAP after the birth, which kind of threw the nurses for a loop), but when I had my appendix out? It took dozens of sticks, in both arms, and once they finally got the IV placed, it FELL OUT, and they had to get a phlebotomist to come from the lab to re-place it. So, given a choice, in a normal, unmedicated labor, I would not choose to have an IV placed, knowing what kind of fiasco it could well be.
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Here’s another reason not to automatically put in an IV line or saline lock on all laboring women:
Athletes, especially in triathlon/decathlon/marathon type events, aren’t forced to compete with them. Even though sometimes they collapse. Even though some of them have heart attacks or seizures or heat stroke or any number of frightening or dangerous things. Can you imagine a safety commission forcing an athlete to run while tethered to an IV pole? Or a javelin thrower trying to compete with a heplock in her hand?
Giving birth is no competition, certainly. But a natural birth–the healthiest, best kind for mom and baby–involves every cell in that mom’s body. It’s HARD work. It takes all she’s got in her. She can do it…but don’t make it harder for her, even by a little bit. She needs to concentrate, to listen to her body, to be free to move, unencumbered, and unhampered, to deal with the contractions and keep things going.
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“It took dozens of sticks, in both arms, and once they finally got the IV placed, it FELL OUT, and they had to get a phlebotomist to come from the lab to re-place it. So, given a choice, in a normal, unmedicated labor, I would not choose to have an IV placed, knowing what kind of fiasco it could well be.”
So if you know first hand that sometimes an IV can be very hard to place and it might take a while to get one in, you WOULDN’T get it during labor in case of an emergency? That doesn’t make much sense.
I do think that automatic IV’s are overkill, but I guess I just don’t understand why people find hep locks horribly offensive. It’s a little trouble that might make a big difference.
I don’t think this doctor’s comment is offensive. It’s just true, sorry.
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CCindy Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 11:03 am (Quote)
You really should rethink having and IV or hep-lock because somethings things happen.” would have been true. Uttering the words death/dead/die or stillborn in order to get the patient to comply is offensive. Why don’t you get that? Besides, what is the point of doing it in advance if it might fall out and then you have to do it again. What if they do it 6 times over the course of an 18 hour labor and then never even needed it? As you said automatic IV’s are overkill. So, let mom decide.
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Semi-crunchy Mama Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 10:07 pm (Quote)
As I said above, I had the Hep-Lock/IV conversation with my original OB. She was respectful. She understood why I didn’t want one and explained that she preferred I had one for reasons x, y, and z. She signed off on my birth plan and asked that I think about it though. That she wasn’t going to make me get one.
I am sure it is more difficult to place an IV in someone who is bleeding out/dying/whatever. But don’t play the death card to a mother who is trying to intellectually discuss her birth plan with you. And, for goodness sake, not in front of my three year old!
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Amelia Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 8:55 pm (Quote)
Let’s see, person-who-won’t-even-give-a-name:
I wound up with an appendectomy (also unnecessary, but that’s another story) AND enormous bruises on both arms AND the backs of my hands. Which were nearly as painful, healing, as my surgical incisions. To wind up with bruises and more bruises just in case I might start bleeding at some point in the future? Not a worthwhile trade-off. See, I’m an adult who can make decisions for my body that my care providers ought to respect, even if they disagree. Threatening me with dying of a hemorrhage? Not one bit respectful (or realistic, for that matter).
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Am I the only one wondering what kind of care jubejubes and fuzzy are providing that ends up causing so many of their patients to need stat IV access?
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StaudtCJ Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 1:39 pm (Quote)
Nope. That thought occurred to me, too. I’d be terrified to have fuzzy or jubejubes tending me anytime, but especially during a birth. They seem to have significantly more emergencies than the statistical norm. I’d actually be worried they are causing these emergencies from an overblown hero complex combined with some sort of narcissism. They have to be the savior at every birth, so they make sure something goes drastically wrong that they can fix. Scary.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 7:34 pm (Quote)
I’m not wondering. I’m imagining. It’s not pretty.
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Semi-crunchy Mama Reply:
September 2nd, 2010 at 10:08 pm (Quote)
Lol. That’s what my mom said I should’ve asked this OB when she made the comment.
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Jane Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 4:38 am (Quote)
I don’t think they’re experiencing more emergencies. I think what happens is that every doctor occasionally experiences a situation where the crap hits the fan (I’m sure that’s a scientific/technical term) and the doctor has to act immediately to save the patient’s life.
Afterward, the doctor goes over the situation in his or her head repeatedly, looking for ways he or she could have handled it better. If the woman was bleeding out, the doctor may think, “If she’d had a heplock, it could have been handled faster,” and they make an effort not to make the same “mistake” again.
Jerome Groopman goes over this psychological tactic in his book How Doctors Think. He says that this is a key reason why doctors often overtreat patients (he never discusses obstetrics, btw) because the doctor is haunted by a bad outcome in the past and wants to make sure that never happens again.
Bad outcomes that happen *because of* the doctor’s precautions are therefore considered justified because the doctor has insulated himself/herself against guilt should the terrible thing in the past ever happen again. In other words, by accepting Fuzzy’s helpock, you’re medicating the doctor.
Groopman interviewed doctors and would say, “What’s the best experience you’ve had as a doctor?” and would get a sentence. Then then he’d say, “What was the worst?” and the doctor would stop, stare off into space, and then talk for five minutes about a terrible situation and what he or she does ever since in order to prevent it, even if there was nothing the doctor could have done to change things.
It’s because at heart, doctors are human.
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I like your comment – but still, midwives are human too and they can handle these situations quite differently…
Why is that then?
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Jane Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 5:36 am (Quote)
Midwives can fall into the same trap. The midwife I used wanted me to bake my baby’s clothing at 250 degrees in the oven because she once had a baby who nearly died from spider bites because there were spider eggs in the baby clothes.
(Fortunately my baby arrived before I had to come up with an excuse as to why I wasn’t going to be baking the baby clothes.)
But doctors see higher-risk women on a regular basis and therefore they probably DO see more emergencies than a midwife will, and in the environment where they’re surrounded by high-tech equipment, they may feel more pressure to act on perceived emergencies.
But overall it’s a memory flaw. The bad experiences stand out far more than the good and the fear overpowers the confidence.
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My experience is that he one-on-one care and the intensive knowing each other makes midwives think different.
Most homebirth midewives I know nearly never experience emergencies because they somehow feel that the woman starts to produce something and transfer before it gets to hot.
That’s why homebirth is safer than hospital birth – because there are one or two persons only watching you, caring for you, the same all the time and so on.
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Jane Reply:
September 3rd, 2010 at 6:49 am (Quote)
Maybe the fact that midwives know they can call on backup makes them a little more able to trust birth. In the doctor’s case, s/he knows there’s no one else. They’re not going to transfer a mom to a SuperDuperHospital if she crashes at the hospital, and the doctor is relying on the nursing staff to detect a problem in time for the doctor to race to the hospital in time to fix it.
Because the doctor sees himself/herself as the final line of defense, maybe the doctor is more primed to always think in crisis-mode, and yes, the hospital system is set up so as to ensure as many crises as possible. Not intentionally, but having one nurse monitor three laboring women via electronic monitors that are of no proven value, while the doctor is either working in an office or at home sleeping, is not for the benefit of the laboring mother.
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OMG I got to hear this while I was in labor, from a natural-birth-skittish nurse. I finally consented to a heplock to shut her up, only to discover it was a back door to her delivering pitocin after I’d given birth, which I probably didn’t need, because omg i still might bleed to death.
I really need to submit all the things I heard during my early labor. I am out of things for Thursdays. LOL.
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I consented to a hep-lock with my second mostly to avoid hassle from the hospital and I am a hard stick (my first came too quickly for them to do anything but catch), but it was a total PIA. It hurt everytime I moved my arm and as soon as the shift change happened, the new nurse automatically hooked up the IV drip. I had to get my doctor’s permission to have it disconnected, even though I had a HUGE 44 oz cup of water which I was drinking from to keep hydrated. Luckily/unluckily I was confined to the bed because of a slight elevation of blood pressure, so I didn’t get to try anything fancy in terms of positions, so I didn’t have to try and manuver it around to be comfortable.
Pushing with it was not comfortable and then afterwards, when I did need that shot of pitocin for bleeding, the d*mn thing slipped out of the vein, my hand swelled to twice its normal size and I got the painful shot in the leg anyway. I’m just happy the nurse didn’t try and put it back in, because she looked like she wanted to. Happily, my doc said not to worry about it and she left it alone.
I found it frustrating because it was unnecessary, made me uncomfortable, and even if they did need it, it wouldn’t have helped. As soon as they tried to push something through it, it slipped out. It was the antithesis to the scenario of having it just in case, I had it, but it didn’t stay put when needed which would have caused additional delay.
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Bleeding to death. IV huh? Yeah ’cause apparently only midwives know you can give a shot of pit IM, or methergine even. Dr is a moron or blatantly lying about risks. My goodness its frightening either way.
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