Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
“If You Don’t Progress To My Satisfaction…”
“If you don’t progress to my satisfaction it will mean an automatic cesarean.” – OB to mother in labor.
This is so very sad. I have seen it happen as a doula and I have also seen other OBs being SO very patient. I just blogged about a 52 hour birth I was at. NO MENTION of a cesarean at all.
Just goes to show the importance of choosing your care provider and birth location!!!
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Stacy Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 5:53 pm (Quote)
Unfortunately, many of us have very few options when it comes to provider and place. I had an epi pushed on me and caved but luckily managed to avoid a cesarean. I’ve been looking and looking but there are not many supportive doctors in this area, and the only 1 that has been recommended doesn’t take my insurance.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 7:17 pm (Quote)
It’s the same principle if you happen to be on Medicaid – only worse, because only a minority of doctors want to take on Medicaid patients.
Sure, you’re guaranteed of getting reimbursed, but it won’t be at a very high rate, and Medicaid patients are perceived as being more likely to sue if something goes wrong than private patients (not true; because Medicaid patients often don’t know how to navigate the legal system, and many tend to be grateful for having any kind of care at all, however substandard, making them even less likely to sue).
On top of all that, Medicaid patients are often assumed to be high risk. A higher percentage of them smoke, drink, do drugs, etc in pregnancy, whether they are honest about this at their prenatal appointments or not. More Medicaid patients are teenagers. Are in a state of “food insecurity,” meaning it’s always a tossup whether the food will be paid for or the rent, and the food may not be very high quality, either due to lack of education about food choices or to the person living in a “food desert,” a slum that has nothing but convenience stores and fast food joints within walking distance (if that). Have serious, often untreated health issues that they could not afford to get looked at until they got pregnant and suddenly qualified for Medicaid. Are in abusive situations. Are homeless… All the scourges of poverty. Not all mothers on Medicaid have these problems, but a higher percentage do than mothers with private insurance who live in nice suburbs, and the assumption on the part of many health officials is that if a Medicaid mother says she doesn’t smoke, drink, do drugs, live on nothing but Cheetos, etc, she’s probably lying – and even if she’s not, she’s probably still uneducated and doesn’t know how to take care of herself, so just assume this will be a high risk birth…
So a lot of private doctors do not want to take on Medicaid patients. This limits choices greatly. There might be fifty or a hundred doctors listed in the care provider booklet if you live in a city of half a million people or so, but three fourths of them at any given time have packed schedules and can’t take on any new cases, even if the booklet lists them as available. So you go down the list methodically until the operator finds one who has an opening… Good luck. Most of the openings are through public clinics, by the way.
The situation is even more dire in the countryside, because in rural areas, there is a dearth of primary care providers anyway. Also a dearth of OB/GYNs (who are listed as PCPs, even though they really shouldn’t be).
Which is why, if you are poor and you live in a small town, you may be limited to choosing one doctor… the one who is available, especially if you are challenged in the area of transportation and can’t commute to a nearby small city. Heaven help you if your philosophy doesn’t match his.
Which is what happened to me my second birth. (Before we lost our car, I had a CNM and was very happily seeing her. Too bad the commute was two hours each way.) When I saw the handwriting on the wall, I found a direct-entry midwife and started planning for a homebirth, which didn’t happen because we wound up with a premature birthing emergency that I had mistaken for merely abnormally severe diarrhoea and vomiting, and got taken to the hospital anyway, where they looked up the OB/GYN in my records.
But that was a large part of what sold me so strongly on homebirth. At least when you give birth at home, you have choices.
So long as your tax refund can pay for them.
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Cmat Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 7:11 pm (Quote)
Yeah, I don’t have a lot of options for my next birth. One hospital and -maybe- two OBs on staff. I’m hoping to go midwife though.
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Stacy Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 7:13 pm (Quote)
I wish we had a birth center or midwives in the hospitals here. I don’t feel comfortable with a home birth because I am not comfortable in my home. It’s too tiny and I would be miserable here, so my only option is an OB in a hospital.
NTM, my insurance doesn’t cover home birth and it’s too expensive OOP.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 11:08 am (Quote)
When Kassandra was born, I wound up owing my midwife for several months because we had to wait for our next tax refund to pay her – the one that arrived in time for Kassandra’s birth wound up going to finding a rental house in a neighborhood that didn’t have a black market gun dealer and drug vendor next door, and to finding a vehicle that actually ran. Oops. It never rains but it pours. Fortunately, she was a very understanding midwife. And we DID pay her back – when we could afford to do so.
Some direct entry midwives also adjust their fees if they have a client who really wants a home birth but is on a very limited income. some even accept barter, although that’s more common in rural areas.
About the location problem: Some midwives have the client go to their homes if the client’s house is, for whatever reason, uncomfortable or inappropriate. There’s also the option of renting a motel room.
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Stacy Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 11:11 am (Quote)
At the point of renting a motel room, it’s easier to just go to the hospital. The midwives here also don’t live anywhere near me. And I don’t get a tax refund. I highly doubt they’ll allow me a $20/mth payment plan. Such is life, I just educate to know my rights in a hospital! And I DID find a doula who will work with me on a very reduced fee.
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CCindy Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 11:24 am (Quote)
Sarah, why do you keep giving the government an interest free loan? Adjust your withholding and have the money when you need it!
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Stacy Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 12:22 pm (Quote)
While I would normally agree, I do know that it doesn’t work like that if you get EIC. Often people get back more than they pay.
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Kat Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 1:36 pm (Quote)
My husband has his withholding adjusted as much as he can get away with. I think the amount of our federal withholding was at or near zero last year. With child-credits we still got “money back” on our federal income tax. State taxes we did have to pay some, but it wasn’t a whole lot. Getting money at tax time doesn’t always mean you need to adjust your withholding forms at your place of employment. Just tossing that out there, I do agree with working things so the government isn’t withholding an inordinate amount of your paycheck, doing so doesn’t always mean you will not get a check when you file your tax return.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 4:40 pm (Quote)
1) The earned income tax credit is about half of the refund we get, and because we live just above the poverty line, it’s substantial. I presume that’s not the part of my tax refund you are talking about, though.
2) Our two oldest daughters are disabled enough that they get SSI. I kind of have mixed feelings about this, but it does enable me to stay home, and we have found that when I work outside of the house, on the up side, I’m a lot happier and less stressed out, but on the down side, the house falls to pieces and so does household morale – the girls start acting out more. I have read that a lot of autistic children are unusually attached to their mothers, and I decided after a lot of soul searching that as much as I hate being a stay at home parent, until all of our children are in school full time and are a little more emotionally and physically independent, it’s probably for the best that I stay home since the SSI enables that. Our occupational therapist concurred and tried to soothe me by saying, “That’s one of the things SSI is for.”
Cynically, I also can’t help but think that Social Security is going to go belly up before my husband and I hit “retirement” age, and SSI is probably the only way of recouping what we have paid into the system – unlike federal tax money, Social Security is not refundable. And part of qualifying for it is being poor enough to get an earned income tax credit. Merely having a disabled child is not sufficient.
Thing is, if you receive SSI, you cannot have any investment-type assets. You have to liquidate them first if you have any. They want you to use up your savings first, which I suppose stands to reason, although it doesn’t encourage good money management.
So instead of getting a Roth IRA, CDs, etc, we take zero tax deductions and get our tax money back because we’ve overpaid.
We do pay property tax on our mobile home, so I feel we contribute to society rather than mooching completely – although since my husband has a salaried job, I probably shouldn’t feel like what we do mooches in the first place. We pay into the system that we take out of. It’s just that I was raised by fiscally conservative WASPs from New England, so sometimes I catch myself feeling really, really ashamed. Ah, well.
Anyway, getting a honking huge tax refund isn’t the best way to put money into short-term savings, but it’s the only way available to us at this present time. In a few years I’ll be returning to the paid work force, because my girls will all be in school full time, and I’ll be able to work around that. We’ll see what happens then.
3) This is going to sound really stupid, but my husband has been audited before (long before he met me) and he feels more comfortable overpaying Uncle Sam. That way he figures he won’t get stuck with a large bill to pay if he ever gets audited again. I guess it’s a case of once bitten, twice shy.
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Stacy Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 4:53 pm (Quote)
Sarah, have you guys looked into your daughters getting SSDI through you or more likely your husband’s social security number, rather than SSI? That’s what my parents did with me for a year or 2 when I was a teenager and disabled. It sounds like he’s worked long enough to where you should be able to do that and you would no longer have asset limits. Just something to look into.
They should qualify as disabled children under 23 living at home.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 8:35 am (Quote)
He’s only been working for the probation department for about two years (or is it three?) but he’s been in the work force since he was a teenager, and he’s middle aged like me, so we might very well qualify for SSDI by now. That’s a good idea, especially when we’re a little less strapped and can afford to sign up for the HMO again rather than using children’s Medicaid. Given how long it takes to set anything from the government up, now would probably be a good time to start researching how to go about it. Do we just go to the Social Security website and click until we find the appropriate form? Or do we need to talk to human resources?
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Stacy Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 10:41 am (Quote)
Just go to Social Security’s website. I think you can apply directly from there. Good luck! That may help you out a lot! And chances are they won’t get so much that they no longer qualify for Medicaid, but you won’t have to worry about so many restrictions on savings.
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By saying “to my satisfaction” s/he pretty much puts the whole burden of potential failure on the woman (because her progress wasn’t fast enough, even if the baby tolerates it well) and if she has a vaginal birth, the success belongs to the doctor because the doctor set the criteria by which they measure success.
I find that attitude disgusting.
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To your satisfaction? ahhh…Doc I would like to introduce you to me—cuz I don’t think we’ve met…I’m the CONSUMER! And as long as my baby and I are fine, you are here to serve us achieve the safest birth possible…which according to ACOG and the World Health Organization is a vaginal birth. If you can’t do that, you send somebody in here that can.
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That sounds almost sexual. Certainly it sounds obscene.
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I’m curious what his/her satisfaction is. Unfortunately that can be two hours, six hours, who knows. Same with SROM and no signs of labor – without cervical checks you have little chance of infection, but since everyone and his brother has to get up there to see what isn’t going on, suddenly the doctor’s “time limit” for labor starting is the 24 hour rule, sometimes less than that.
I sort of had the opposite happen to me, though. Babe was double footling breech and the nurse said to me (when no one else was in the room) “You can have this baby vaginally, you know.” It was a little late to mentally prepare for something like that, especially when the doctor probably had no idea how to perform such a task. I heard later that that hospital bans vaginal breech births, so I’m wondering why she even suggested it.
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Cmat Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 7:14 pm (Quote)
I hope that nurse found another job at a better facility. Sounds like she was one of the decent ones.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 7:21 pm (Quote)
Maybe she found a scholarship to a school with a good nurse-midwifery programme. We could always use more supportive CNMs.
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 8:14 am (Quote)
I would have tried it, had I had more time to mentally prepare (baby flipped at the last minute) and was more confident in my doctor. She did say, though, after the surgery was done, “Thank you for letting us care for you,” which I thought was really nice.
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K Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 11:21 am (Quote)
Double footling breach vaginally?? That nurse was insane.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 1:07 pm (Quote)
Seriously. What was she thinking? She could have lost her job for that!
The only people who have the training and faith in birth to help mothers deliver breeches these days (footling or otherwise) are midwives, and the occasional very rare doctor. And the only likely place you’ll find that kind of top-notch service is at a homebirthing.
That nurse needs to quit being a handmaid to the obstetric establishment and enter midwifery school – STAT!
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 1:09 pm (Quote)
Silly me, I forgot to put the word “deliver” in big glaring quotation marks. Because only pizzas and Fed Ex shipments are delivered. Babies are born.
I guess I was so incensed that I forgot my punctuation.
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K Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 3:31 pm (Quote)
Sarah, you don’t seem ignorant, so I’m not going to go off on the differences between breach presentations. Current obstetrics absolutely wets itself for even frank breeches being birthed vaginally, so it’s hard to out things in perspective. But a double footling breach has a 10-25% chance of cord prolapse, I can’t link to the complete reference but it’s a 1993 lit review by Cheng. No midwife, anywhere, from any school, can handle or not handle it in such a way as to prevent it from happening, except not rupture membranes. And if it happens, there’s nothing to do about it other than put warm wet gauze GENTLY around the cord, call 911, and hope an OB can perform a cesarean fast enough to save the baby’s life and what is left of its oxygen-deprived brain.
What do you think a midwife, or OB, can do to help keep a double footling breech safe? Or does cord prolapse only happen if the mother, family and care provider mistrust birth?
Most ways to deliver a breech as safely as possible boil down to “keep your hands off”. You may as well be by yourself at home, maybe with someone to resuscitate the baby afterward.
If your religion or life philosophy tells you that what is meant to be is meant to be, including a dead newborn, this doesn’t mean anything. If you are trying to have a healthy baby, it’s something to think about.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:15 pm (Quote)
If footling breeches are so dangerous that they warrant an automatic c-section, then why do midwifery texts discuss the safest ways to catch footling breech babies as they emerge from the vagina?
Obviously some breeches are a no-go. If the mother has a breech stuck in a transverse lie that won’t turn into a more favourable position, there’s no way that baby is coming out without the obstetric version of the Jaws of Life. If a breech baby shows obvious signs of foetal distress, that’s call for immediately rushing the mother to the OR, too.
If the breech is butt first or feet first, and seems to be in no distress, then the distress seems to be more on the part of the medical establishment (from thinking “what if? what if? what if?”) than on the part of the baby.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:20 pm (Quote)
Here’s a good read. I don’t have a list of websites to cite for occasions like this, so I had to use a search engine. (There’s a lot of stuff to read if you do a search on “how to vaginally deliver a footling breech baby.”)
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K Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:40 pm (Quote)
Obstetrical texts also discuss the safest way to deliver breeches. As to why they do so, it’s important to know in case, whether you are a doctor or a midwife, you realize you’ve got a baby on your hands coming out feet-or-butt first, whether you like it or not. If someone comes in or you go to someone’s house and there are feet sticking out, you’d better know how to proceed. They talk about how to manage shoulder dystocias and hemorrhage too, that doesn’t mean they’re good things to have happen. And while Wagner’s article is a great read, I’d be more interested to know her statistics, especially how many breeches resulted in neonatal morbidity and mortality, including the transfers.
PS A fetus can be breech or it can be transverse, not both.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:46 pm (Quote)
My bad for assuming a transverse lie was a type of breech position.
Otherwise, I continue to disagree with you. Since I am not one of your patients, that probably works out well for the both of us.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:49 pm (Quote)
Shoulder dystocia: that’s not as much of an issue as it would be in a hospital birth with a typical OB/GYN. I’m sure you’re familiar with the Gaskin Manouvre? It’s amazing how much easier it is to pass a large baby or a broad-shouldered baby if the mother is on her hands and knees, especially when she is not weakened by withholding of food and drink, or out of touch with her own pushing efforts thanks to an epidural drip.
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K Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 1:13 pm (Quote)
Sarah: Yes I’m familiar with the Gaskin maneuver (not trying to correct your spelling, I know you’re not wrong just British!). And yeah if a mom hasn’t chosen to have an epidural it’s great to start out pushing in hands and knees position. But it’s not a guarantee against shoulder dystocia and it would be pretty irresponsible if midwives and OBs stopped there with ways to resolve it. Being at home with a midwife, not having an epidural, and not having an IV is not a magic charm against SD, hemorrhage or cord prolapse.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 5:00 pm (Quote)
“But it’s not a guarantee against shoulder dystocia and it would be pretty irresponsible if midwives and OBs stopped there with ways to resolve it. Being at home with a midwife, not having an epidural, and not having an IV is not a magic charm against SD, hemorrhage or cord prolapse.”
Which is why most homebirth midwives ask their clients to make a backup plan in case of a need for emergency transfer, including directions to the nearest hospital (most people these days live within half an hour of a hospital, and half an hour is the time recommended for maximum wait time for an emergency c-section).
No, having your baby at home is not a magic charm against anything, not even incompetent or rude care providers (homebirth midwives have been given a place of “honour” here before; the quote I remember most vividly is the one from a midwife who told her client that she was having birth complications because of her “sin”).
But it sure helps. Mothers who labour and birth at home get to eat or drink when they feel like it, labour however they feel like it (including the option of whether or not to have cervical “checks”), wiggle around to make themselves more comfortable (which can often turn a malpositioned baby) and birth in the position that is most comfortable (which is often the position that is easiest on the baby depending on its position and size).
Shoulder dystocia in particular is rare even under hospital conditions, rarer still at a homebirth for the aforementioned reason of maternal freedom making birth easier. And when it does happen, it’s rarer still to have it unsolved by flipping the mother over onto her fours. Not unheard of, but extremely rare, rare enough that it’s arguable that the same problem would have an equally scary outcome under hospital conditions, because in true shoulder dystocia, the head has already come out and can’t be pushed back up inside the mother’s uterus without causing grievous damage to the baby, which is why it’s so dangerous a birth complication. Again, that problem would happen at home or in the hospital. Having it happen at the hospital does not make it a better problem.
Birth emergencies do sometimes happen. They happen more often with babies who are in awkward birth positions, but the key factor in determining survival and health in general is not that the baby is born in a hospital (by surgery or otherwise) but whether or not the care provider has the training and experience to deal with the emergency wherever it happens.
Today, most babies in a breech position (footling or otherwise) are probably best sectioned out, but not because it’s an inherently risky position. The problem is that obstetricians are almost never trained to deal with vaginal breech birth, and midwives are trained less due to liability reasons. If birth were treated as a healthy family event that only goes wrong under very rare circumstances, and unusual baby positions were treated as variations rather than as deadly emergencies, more professionals would get the appropriate training. The fear of negative outcome has to be put aside, or there will be more negative outcomes. It’s a vicious circle we’ve created.
At any rate, if the mother has a care provider who does have the training and experience to deal with a footling breech birth, she’s safe, and so is the baby. It’s an awkward position, but not an impossible one. The mother should be the one to make the call. She should not be called insane for choosing vaginal birth. Nor should her care provider.
BTW, I’m American, but I got in the habit of using British spelling when I was at Oxford, because I was trying VERY hard to go native – I was considering emigrating, and I wanted to fit in. Since I was over there for several years, I picked up certain idioms and an accent, too. The accent went away. The spelling and idioms are more or less ingrained, I think.
CCindy Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 5:25 am (Quote)
I’m not sure where you got the transverse vs. breech comment, but since it might just apply to my first attempt at VBAC, what would YOU call it when the baby’s butt is at 4-5 o’clock and his head is in your liver at 10-11 o’clock? BTW I opted to go to the OR for surgery. I’ve since read the study of homebirths that said 1 out of 40 breech babies turn out very sad. But I would always leave it to the mom to determine if she feels like she would be the 1 or the 39 based on her gut and the surronding details. My theory is respect the mom. She is always going to do right by her baby. Give her the truth and respect her brains and her gut instincts. But hey I don’t work in the medical field surrounded by idiots!
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 8:18 am (Quote)
Yes. The important word here is “opted.” You made a choice based on what you felt was the wisest course at the time.
What gets up my craw is the mentality that something Just Can’t Be Done By Sane People. Obviously there are a few emergencies of birth that occasionally come up (such as placental abruption and cord prolapse) that take the choice out of everybody’s hands, but the vast majority of “you’re insane to not operate” situations aren’t emergencies, they’re variations. Awkward variations, perhaps, but “awkward” should not equate with “emergency.”
Unfortunately, the “you have to be insane to consider this safe for vaginal birth, it’s too dangerous to birth without expert experience and a lot of luck and why don’t we just do the safe thing and cut the baby out now and save everybody a lot of grief and worry” mentality is self-fulfilling. If schools don’t teach obstetricians and midwives how to assist with birth variations, then you wind up with an inexperienced and nervous attendant and yes, the safest course winds up being surgery, not because “it can’t be done” but because nobody knows how best to help or has enough confidence to reassure the mother.
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K Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 1:36 pm (Quote)
“I’m not sure where you got the transverse vs. breech comment, but since it might just apply to my first attempt at VBAC, what would YOU call it when the baby’s butt is at 4-5 o’clock and his head is in your liver at 10-11 o’clock?”
That’d still be considered transverse by many, oblique by others. Just like a longitudinal lie the baby’s position would be given an alphabet soup to describe it in shorthand (Like LOA=left occiput anterior), so is a transverse lie. Left or right is what side of the mother’s body the head is on, so it’d start with R. Instead of occiput, the random orienting part is the scapula, no matter what part is over the pelvic brim. If the baby is facing the mother’s back, it’s anterior, so RScA; if it’s facing the front, it’s RScP. You’d say the lie was oblique, position was RScP, presenting part was… flank? There really is not a presenting part there.
I wish Wagner had shown respect for women herself, and discussed rates of complications like cord prolapse and fetal and maternal injury or death, just like we want OBs to do. When a breach goes wrong it tends to be really, really wrong, and it’s not like you can do a c/s easily when it does. If you’ve got half the baby out and a prolapsed cord and the head caught on the cervix, you can imagine there’s a limited number of ways to resolve this situation, fewer that don’t result in trauma to the mother or baby. True respect of women means not infantilizing them by thinking they can’t handle “negative thinking” and telling them that their gut is always right. If people’s gut instincts were always right, would we have any bad perinatal outcomes, ever?
Schools DO teach OBs and midwives how to assist with birth variations! And transverse and breach lies are NOT just “variations of normal”. They tend to go along with other complications like hydrocephaly and placenta previa, for one thing, and for another they’re a lot more likely to end badly no matter who’s attending. Why should women be falsely reassured?
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 5:21 pm (Quote)
“I wish Wagner had shown respect for women herself, and discussed rates of complications like cord prolapse and fetal and maternal injury or death, just like we want OBs to do”
Are you referring to Dr. Marsden Wagner? Frankly, I think he has more respect for women than the average OB/GYN and many CNMs do. For starters, he believes in a mother’s right to choose her own birthing circumstances, rather than have the choice taken out of her hands by benevolent dictators who want to do what is best “for her own good.” He also has pointed out, correctly, that the c-section craze (it’s been called an epidemic, which is technically incorrect because it’s a surgery, not a disease) is killing mothers and babies unnecessarily. There are many factors in the ludicrously high c-section rate, and one of them is the fear of something going wrong if the mother has a baby who is in an unusual or awkward birthing position.
The “when in doubt, cut it out” philosophy is simply not healthy.
“… Schools DO teach OBs and midwives how to assist with birth variations! And transverse and breech lies are NOT just ‘variations of normal’…”
Penn and Teller have a wonderfully descriptive barnyard term for that.
Yes, when a transverse lie won’t turn prior to or during labour (most do, some don’t) there’s no way to birth the baby naturally. A sideways baby is not going to fit through a dilated cervix.
But breech? Perfectly safe – if the care provider knows how to catch the baby. Homebirth midwives do it all the time. In the rare case of emergency, they have transport arranged. It’s hardly a matter of “If you choose homebirth, you MUST stay at home and deal with the consequences.” Read Peggy Vincent, or any other number of memoirs written by midwives (Peggy Vincent’s is the most fun, though – some of her stories made me laugh until tears were rolling down my cheeks). Plenty of accounts of happy home births, interspersed with accounts of when something came up and the mother got the transport she needed.
“Why should women be falsely reassured?”
Because it’s not FALSE reassurance.
Well, not unless you happen to be part of the majority of birthing professionals, in which case you subscribe to the medical model of birth, in which case, of course all births are emergencies until proven otherwise in retrospect. A lot of women seem happy to accept that scenario, and if they’re happy with the standard of care provided by obstetricians and hospitals, more power to them. Most births end safely regardless of where they occur, how they occur, or who is in attendance.
For those of us who don’t like the medical model and want something else, we would prefer to have options, including the option to stay home and birth our breech babies if that’s what we want, and it would help tremendously if we had more care providers who were trained in the art of assisting at breech births and available to help us when we ask for it. Which means the nay-saying provides false worry, which is just as dangerous in its own way as false hope.
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K Reply:
June 24th, 2010 at 7:45 pm (Quote)
Nope, not referring to Marsden, referring to the author of the Midwifery Today article.
I mean this with no snark. Your philosophy seems to be that breeches turn out best if they’re not touched, yet then you say that breech is ‘perfectly safe’ if you have someone trained to catch. So as a provider, I’m hearing that if it doesn’t end well, the catcher messed up. It sounds like you don’t really think there’s a risk at all. I’m seriously wondering why you think anyone should attend breach births, since by your logic interference would just mess it up. Wouldn’t a mother be better off with a doula?
If you ask for help once the baby’s head is caught within the uterus or against the pubic bone, the help would consist of the use of instruments that make forceps look comfy, and cutting the cervix. That’s reality. And it does not necessarily mean anyone screwed up, it means you came up on the losing end of the gamble.
I did read Peggy Vincent’s book, and there were so many really happy stories, and then there was the cord prolapse that resulted in a severely brain damaged baby and the end of her career because of a LAWSUIT against her, from someone who realized that trusting birth doesn’t pay for upkeep of a brain damaged child.
To be honest, I’m a baby nurse-midwife, a new grad, and I have always, always wanted to attend home births. But I’m going into it with open eyes and anyone I serve will do the same, because I don’t want to go out like Peggy Vincent, and I don’t want to be held responsible for something that is completely out of my hands. I know that birth has its own path. And fact is that there ARE complications in which you don’t have 30 minutes to get to the OR or to advanced lifesaving equipment, or you need a full medical response team. Ask Lisa Barrett, who was present at the birth of a double footling breach in one of those videos. She had a 24 minute shoulder dystocia that resulted in a dead baby, at home, none of those things that can cause a shoulder dystocia like vacuum or forceps, or being restricted in movement, or anything. See, there are anecdotes on both sides. (And 24 minute shoulder dystocia is horrendous btw.)
Those excellent homebirth studies consisted of _appropriate_ homebirth and midwifery candidates. Unlike most MDs I believe there is definitely such a thing as a good homebirth candidate, but there’s also such a thing as risking out. If you don’t respect midwives enough to take their judgment seriously when they say something is not safe, why do you use them at all? And why would you then expect them to tell you against their better judgment that everything’s going to be fine?
Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 25th, 2010 at 6:58 am (Quote)
For some reason your most recent post is blocked from reply.
My philosophy is that birth is best done under circumstances that the mother feels most comfortable with, because a distressed mother tends to have more problems.
I am as close to preferring unassisted birth for myself as it’s possible to get – like that one lady in Vincent’s memoirs, I see a midwife as kind of like a fire extinguisher. Leave me alone, I’ll call if I need help. I’ll endure intermittent monitoring if I must, but other than that, nothing for me, thanks. I found that out during my third birth, which went so fast that the baby arrived before the midwife and the doula. I think a doula’s presence would actually hinder me. I like to be alone.
Other women need comfort, support, etc. They would not like labouring alone like me; they would find it miserable and frightening. In birth stories in books I’ve read, I see a lot of negative stories from mothers who found one of the worst parts about hospital birthing to be the lack of human attention and reassurance, and their husbands/partners were almost as distressed if they weren’t “birth junkies” because there was their partner, labouring, in pain, in a situation usually framed by society as fraught with danger, and nobody was reassuring them any more than they were reassuring their partners. That probably stalls a lot of labours right there.
Some women feel most comfortable in a medical setting with as many bells, whistles, and drugs as can be offered to them. That, despite being presented with evidence that other ways work just as well, if not better. I think they’re nuts, but the feeling is mutual, so that’s all right. Really, they just have different needs. If they can’t birth without epidural pain relief and the reassurance of continuous electronic monitoring and medical staff on call, then they shouldn’t try.
My philosphy regarding breech birth, in particular, I have already listed a couple of times: It is safe – provided the midwife or doctor who is to catch the baby HAS ADEQUATE TRAINING. Nursing school, like med school, is unlikely to train midwives in how to catch all breeches, most likely due to liability issues, as most of the CNMs I know are quite open minded about birthing variations. Although some nursing schools may simply have a more medical philosophy. Medical schools for obstetricians can vary in philosophy, too – Georgetown and Johns Hopkins are big on pushing surgery, I’ve heard.
A midwife who wants to learn to catch a footling breech is probably best off apprenticing herself to a direct entry midwife (CM, CPM, etc) because they’re about the only people willing to assist at such births these days.
If the art completely dies, then no, birthing a footling will not be as safe as houses. It will be a lot riskier.
I believe that mothers deserve options; categorically declaring something too risky to be done out of a hospital setting when it has, in fact, been done safely outside of hospital settings before is based on fear (of birth, or liability – does it matter which?) rather than evidence. That limits the options of the mother unnecessarily. I think it is critical that birth providers be exposed to more variations of normal, and more approaches to birth than what insurance companies consider to be best practice. I don’t want to see options wither away due to red tape.
Note: I read Laura Shanley’s book on unassisted birth, including her description of her unassisted footling breech birth, and I think that would push my own risk buttons a little too hard – I’d want a good midwife to help me out with that sort of situation. However, it was her choice how to birth her own baby, and if she did it with open eyes, that’s what matters.
Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:26 pm (Quote)
The information here could have been organized in a less confusing-to-read fashion, and there’s a lot to sort through. Still, the fact that there is a lot to sort through makes it an interesting read.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:30 pm (Quote)
Wow! This was apparently on one of those otherwise scaremongering Discovery Health shows – and is mentioned on a VBAC support group in a very mainstream social networking site (BabyCenter)!
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a5496865/breech_vaginal_birth_anyone
Neat.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:37 pm (Quote)
This is so cool! (Also graphic – fair warning) It’s pictures of a footling breech baby coming out. The first shot is of an unruptured amniotic sac before it gets ruptured. So that’s what they look like. Anyway, this is a really neat one:
http://www.birthingway.com/footling_breech.htm
and the very healthy baby you see at the end of the sequence and birth story is soooooo cute…
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 23rd, 2010 at 4:44 pm (Quote)
This blog provides a link to another footling breech baby coming out with the help of a supportive family physician:
http://rixarixa.blogspot.com/2008/07/unassisted-footling-breech-birth_11.html
I think I’ll stop burdening everybody with the results of my websurfing. Suffice it to say that the decision about whether or not a footling breech should be removed abdominally is hardly cut and dried. The ultimate factor is probably how much experience the care provider has in catching breech babies. Most doctors are not trained to do this these days; many midwives avoid footling breeches like plague, although they are willing to assist with frank breeches and other butt-first positions, while other midwives and some old-school family doctors and OBs will help out with a footling breech if the baby appears healthy and no signs of distress are present.
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K Reply:
June 25th, 2010 at 1:48 pm (Quote)
Ha, your most recent reply was blocked from response too! Maybe it’s the website’s polite way of saying, Pipe down! But TBH I’m enjoying talking to you about this. I remember before I went off to school feeling determined that I would attend anyone at home who wanted it (barring, say, a transverse baby or something along those lines). But training to become a midwife is greuling, and expensive, and midwifery for me is truly a calling. If I make the decision to attend a double footling breach, and get my license pulled, that means I cannot be a midwife anymore, that I can’t attend anyone ever again. When it comes down to it, it’s not a risk I’m willing to take, particularly since it’s something that puts a mother and baby at such high risk of trauma.
I am just trying to get across that it’s not just a case of “medwives” or cut- happy OBs that makes it difficult or impossible to find an attendant under certain conditions.
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 25th, 2010 at 3:31 pm (Quote)
Cool. This time it’s letting me make a reply (I think you’re on to something there when you say the site automatically “discourages” replies after a thread has been belaboured a little too long – some codewriter put in a “dead horse” safety switch, as it were)
Most of the midwives I know – CNM, CM, CPM, and lay – are midwives rather than medwives. I’ve encountered a few medwives, too. One of them was the senior partner of the CNM who I had chosen to be with me at my first birth. Alas. She probably got along with me about as well as I got along with her.
I think you CNMs are put in a particularly tight spot. Malpractice insurance is expensive, and even though you don’t pay the same rate obstetricians pay, I have heard it’s cost prohibitive. But unlike obstetricians, you don’t have the sort of mentality that says it’s okay to practice defensive medicine and go whole hog on the technology and surgery-as-panacea, so you have to somehow find a way to balance your faith in birth as a normal event with the need to keep your premiums affordable and your bums covered, because you also generally make much less money than doctors do, and a lawsuit that would inconvenience a doctor by forcing a settlement that would raise the premiums would not just inconvenience you, it would destroy you.
That just sucks.
You must be very stubborn to stay the course and follow your calling, and stubbornness is a virtue I respect.
My CPM has no malpractice insurance – she’s totally bareback, and she hopes that this will partly protect her, because if she were to be sued, her clients know she isn’t exactly wealthy, nor does she have any insurance that would provide a nice payment, so what would be the point of suing? Part of it might also be that I live in a state where direct entry midwifery is illegal anyway, so if one of her clients were to get disgruntled, being sued in court would be the least of her worries.
She’s brave…
There’s a fine line between bravery and insanity, I’ve been told. I’m not sure what draws it, exactly. Commitment, maybe.
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This was mine. It was a homebirth transfer due to a breech baby discovered the day before. My midwife got me a consult with the ONLY OB practice in the city that allowed breech TOL, the head OB said I was a great candidate, but then informed me that he wasn’t on call that weekend. This was his newest partner and she wasn’t happy with me, so tried to use some scare tactics. I had already told her no to the automatic IV, the automatic epidural (as a “high risk” and being 4cm I was supposed to just roll over and let them shove a needle in my back, “just in case”?) and even refused to wear the hospital gown, preferring my own jeans while I was in the early stages of labour. I ate, despite being told not to, and walked up and down the hall at 3am despite the glares and shhh’s from the nurses, who told me to stop reading their board and to not wake anybody up.
I snapped when the doctor said this to me, looked her straight in the eye, and told her if she threatened me with a C-Section one more time that I was going to walk out and go deliver my baby at home like I had previously intended. She sputtered, and stuttered and finally said “you wouldn’t” and my midwife rolled her eyes at the doctor and said “don’t push her.”
I’m happy to report that she went off-call shortly after that, the 3rd OB in the practice was a dream, left me alone to my will, and allowed the 4th year resident to deliver my breech baby…VAGINALLY!!! This was 6 years ago, when the whole breech trials thing was coming to a head.
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Heather P Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 9:16 pm (Quote)
Awesome!
Not the way she treated you but the way you stood up for yourself and got the birth you wanted.
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Jane Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 6:40 am (Quote)
Awesome! I bet that doctor walked away wondering what the heck happened to her.
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cheeks023 Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 7:35 am (Quote)
I learned just last month from a neighbor who works on her L&D floor that she has become a midwife in OB’s clothing. She is a Labouring Woman’s champion, more often seen taking the wait and see approach, with one of the lowest C/S rates in the hospital.
Makes a Mama proud. *sniff* LOL
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Jane Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 7:40 am (Quote)
WOAH!
I wonder if after you told her she was threatening you, she went home and looked in the mirror and asked herself what she’d become.
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cheeks023 Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 8:07 am (Quote)
My neighbour told me that 6 years ago this doctor was fairly new…past her residency, but not been in the field for very long…
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The Deranged Housewife Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 8:16 am (Quote)
Good for you for standing your ground, and good for her for finally having an open mind!
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Sarah Dorrance-Minch Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 11:10 am (Quote)
I really wish this site also had a “like” button, sometimes.
Two thumbs up!
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Heard that while I was in labor with my son. At 8 CM for more than 5 hours…Guess what? I believed her and sobbingly accepted the cesarean
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Lindsey Carr-Ruck Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 4:21 pm Lindsey Carr-Ruck(Quote)
Gretchen, I’m sorry your doctor did that to you. I bet if the doc had suggested a simple position change, it would’ve made a difference. If you have another, go for the VBAC and have a doula with you to help out.
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Cmat Reply:
June 21st, 2010 at 7:12 pm Cmat(Quote)
*hugs* I had a similar line used on me only it was pitocin and not a c-section. I also accepted it because I thought I had no other choice.
I hope your next birth is everything you could hope for!
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