Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
Posted by My OB said WHAT?!?.
“Wow, You Went Into Labor! It Must Have Been All That Crying You Did In My Office.”
“Wow, you went into labor! It must have been all that crying you did in my office.” -OB to mother who birthed her VBAC baby two days before her due date, after mother had broken down in tears in the office earlier in the day after being told she needed to schedule her cesarean before her due date to avoid a sudden stillbirth. She went into labor that night.
O.M.G.
What an a$$. God complex much, doc?
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While I think it was probably NOT the right time to make such a comment, nor was it made in a caring way.. he actually might have been right. Many times mom’s NEED to have a good cry before labor begins.
Again, though, there was so reason for her to need to cry about THAT. He’s still a jerk.
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There are tons of ways to jumpstart labor.
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This is mine!! I had been told I had a grade 3 calcified placenta at my 37 week appt. 2 times weekly NST’s showed my baby was beautifully growing, I had plenty of fluid and I was healthy. At that appt. my husband asked my OB if me and the baby were in any danger if we waited past my due date to go into labor, what might happen. OB replied, “Well, there’s always the chance of sudden stillborn.” Obviously I was crying my head off at that point because of that comment and how badly I wanted to avoid a c-section. My water broke 6 hours later. Successful VBAC (w/ a different OB on rotation). The next morning he was on rotation and came to my room to see me. That was his comment and I thought my husband would murder him!!
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and did he then seek treatment for the punch in the face he got? omfg. insensitive, much? did he get his knOB licence from a Kornflakes packet?
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