My jaw just dropped. “He’s a good man”??? As opposed to you, who are…what exactly??? As someone who knows all too well the pain of infertility I can’t believe an actual RE would be so insensitive! Why even go into that field if s/he’s not going to be compassionate? To the original poster, I am SO sorry anyone said such an awful thing to you – even more since it was someone who should know better.

This is blatant sexism.

If there’s no identifiable problem, it’s the mother’s? Which part of no identifiable problem did he not get??
I think there are herbal and vitamin routes to take to strengthen both of their reproductive systems, if the couple hasn’t tried them already.

Yes, because we all know fertility issues stem from being a good or a bad person. If such a thing were true, we would not have crack babies and child abuse.
Perhaps this doctor graduated from the bottom of his class.

Wow, hideous. Time to see a reproductive immunologist instead.

Are you kidding me!?!? We went through 3 fertility specialists, who all said that although my hubby had low sperm count & high morphology that they could get us PG. The 4th finally looked at the sperm under the same microscope that they use for actual ICSI transfer, and discovered that the sperm heads were too big for the pipette. Doctors don’t know everything…